muffinman1127 Posted September 23, 2013 Posted September 23, 2013 Hey all, What gets you to that point of not wanting a second chance anymore. Every time I think I want to move on, something drags me back into stupid hope. What does it take to finally be done with it? 1
Amelie1980 Posted September 23, 2013 Posted September 23, 2013 For me it was meeting someone else and dating them. they were nothing like my ex but I preferred them in a way. Just as I moved on, my ex started emailing and texting me again. WTF!!!!!!!!! 3
J21 Posted September 23, 2013 Posted September 23, 2013 For me time just does it. Sometimes we're so emotionally invested in a relationship, hopes of reconciliation is the only thing we think about after leaving a significant relationship. However, with enough time passing, usually I begin to see clearly on why it didn't work out. Be honest with yourself on why didn't work out. Keep yourself occupied by working out, going out with friends, catching up on your favorite shows, splurge and make a big purchase if you can afford to. Give it time man, focus on yourself and you'll make it through. 3
lauri Posted September 24, 2013 Posted September 24, 2013 For me time just does it. Sometimes we're so emotionally invested in a relationship, hopes of reconciliation is the only thing we think about after leaving a significant relationship. However, with enough time passing, usually I begin to see clearly on why it didn't work out. Be honest with yourself on why didn't work out. Keep yourself occupied by working out, going out with friends, catching up on your favorite shows, splurge and make a big purchase if you can afford to. Give it time man, focus on yourself and you'll make it through. This is good advice. I know why my ex and I didn't work out but I don't know why things happened the way they did. In the end, it really doesn't matter because she left me. Focusing on improving yourself will really help you in the long run. 2
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