Monodare1 Posted September 23, 2013 Posted September 23, 2013 I'm over three months separated now. I'm going to the gym, eyeing friends, concentrating at work and more importantly trying to be a good father and son. That said, I'm finding that I feel pretty lonely, I got used to the company of the wife and although I have no intention of getting back with her, I do miss the companionship aspect. Is anyone in the same position with the same feelings and how do they deal with it?
JJLA Posted September 23, 2013 Posted September 23, 2013 This is the transition from being a duo to a singular individual. It helps to join groups and make new friends for social contact, but you are going to have to re-discover who you are separate from the you that was in a relationship. Without sorting that out, you run the risk of entering another relationship for the wrong reasons-- companionship rather than love.
M30USA Posted September 23, 2013 Posted September 23, 2013 I've been lonely now for over a year since divorce, but I would take loneliness any day over a chaotic marriage.
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