deathandtaxes Posted September 23, 2013 Posted September 23, 2013 Up until Friday, I had been dating this lady for almost three and a half months. She's 40 with two kids and I'm 35 with none. The first two and a half months were full of crazy unhinged passion and good times. Then she pulled back. Said she needed a little more space and said she was feeling pressure. The last month I only went on two real dates with her. I would see her at other times, but they were not real dates. Part of the low dates is that she is really only free every other weekend due to her children. Although she was making extra effort to find time in the first two months. Fast forward to last Friday and I met her for lunch. Talked about staying in for date night that evening. Then I tried making more plans with her. And she started freaking out a little calling me obsessive with wanting to plan her time and feeling too much pressure. I was only suggesting we get together as bf/gf to have couple time. She said she just can't do this anymore and dumped me on the spot. I have really strong feelings for her and she for me. I just don't understand how she could end things that quick. I am respectful of her decision and haven't contacted her since then. I am sure I already know most of the advice that will be offered, but I still wanted to ask. Should I just let her go? Or should I try to reconnect in a few weeks?
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