cm00 Posted September 23, 2013 Posted September 23, 2013 (edited) I've posted on here once before, the woman I am seeing almost called things off with me after I sent her a few drunk texts that made her feel guilty. Since then things are much better, we're a lot closer and it's all going smoothly. I spent Saturday and most of Sunday with her. Then there was a problem. I received a call from my parents, they said there was something wrong with my computers (i work from home). Because of this my Sunday with her was cut short. I had to go and see what was wrong. Got home to find that nothing was wrong, it was my dad obsessing over nothing. Thanks for ruining my evening dad. Then both parents go out for the evening. Thanks again dad! I text my lady and said this "Nice of them to get me to come from for a false alarm then go out for the evening leaving me to spend the evening alone. Quite cross with them. You sure I can't come back and chill with you for a bit? Won't stay late I know you've got work". To which she didn't answer in her usual quick manner so I sent a second text and said "No worries if not". In 2 minutes she replied and said "I am sorry, not tonight. X" When she said sorry I immediately became worried that she had misconstrued my text and may have presumed I was trying to make her feel guilty through what I said. I replied to her and said "No apology necessary, see you Saturday, let me know how the job offer goes". She replied "Will do x" Am I in the clear here? Normally I don't think this would be a problem but three weeks ago I was on thin ice for sending her drunk texts about me having a lonely drunk night, that she said made her feel guilty, she said never to do that again. I was wondering if I should text her any more on this subject or if it's best to just leave it now. I'm seeing her on Saturday and she's supposed to contact me half way through this week. Edited September 23, 2013 by cm00
Chi townD Posted September 23, 2013 Posted September 23, 2013 Yeah...nothing wrong with those texts. Nothing in there gave me the feeling that she was pissed or anything. Just leave it go and go out on Saturday 1
reddragon588 Posted September 23, 2013 Posted September 23, 2013 This young lady seems very guilt ridden.
Author cm00 Posted September 23, 2013 Author Posted September 23, 2013 This young lady seems very guilt ridden. Nothing indicates she's feeling guilty this time. But I do worry if she misconstrues what I said as an attempt to make her feel guilty over me being alone again as this is something which I was already on thin ice for previously.
Woop1337 Posted September 23, 2013 Posted September 23, 2013 You need to relax. You are spending too much time with this woman. Y'all just spent whole Saturday together, then you want Sunday too. This is a marathon not a race. She's not even your gf. Don't text her anymore. Then go out on Saturday like you planned.
Author cm00 Posted September 23, 2013 Author Posted September 23, 2013 (edited) You need to relax. You are spending too much time with this woman. Y'all just spent whole Saturday together, then you want Sunday too. This is a marathon not a race. She's not even your gf. Don't text her anymore. Then go out on Saturday like you planned. It started as what was going to be a one night stand, became **** buddies but it seems to be progressing quickly into more. She says shes getting over the age difference. We've started kissing on the lips on meeting up and parting from each other (even in public) She took me to her parents house to show me where they live. I've left my toothbrush and a few other things at her place (I asked her if it was okay to do so and she was fine with it) We're also exclusive, that's how she wanted it. She tells all her close friends about me, talks about me a lot. She played a song that she said reminds her of me. This weekend will be the third weekend in a row that I've spent most of the weekend with her. How does it all sound to you? Edited September 23, 2013 by cm00
Author cm00 Posted September 23, 2013 Author Posted September 23, 2013 (edited) I think a bigger issue is that you bailed on a date to go home and fix your computers. Who does that? It wasn't my idea. She overheard the conversation and assumed that the call was serious. I wasn't going to leave but she suggested I should go and sort it. I said what and call it a night for now? She said yeah. Took it that it was time to go. My computers have alarms built in to let me know if there is a problem. One of the alarms was going off. Although that's not what my parents said, they told me "all the alarms are going off". So it sounded bad to both of us. Edited September 23, 2013 by cm00
Lansing Posted September 23, 2013 Posted September 23, 2013 I am more concerned that you don't know how to entertain yourself.. Normally, I would say your texts were pretty normal but with the back story, I think you could come across as desperate and relying on her to entertain you.
Author cm00 Posted September 23, 2013 Author Posted September 23, 2013 I am more concerned that you don't know how to entertain yourself.. Normally, I would say your texts were pretty normal but with the back story, I think you could come across as desperate and relying on her to entertain you. Probably seems that way due to my lifestyle. Some might think i have the dream job. But working from home doing a job which is mostly automated leaves you with far too much spare time to yourself.
Author cm00 Posted September 23, 2013 Author Posted September 23, 2013 All is well, worrying over nothing. I text her Hi, hope work wasn't too stressful today. I made another 20 accounts. I was going to say you could watch the dvd I left but according to reviews it's really good, so best save that for both to watch. Unless you want to make it a porn night? Lol just kidding we have no need for that! got a reply Well done for your 20 accounts, you must have had a good weekend! I will wait to watch it. We can have porn night aswell lol. X
Skyraider829 Posted September 23, 2013 Posted September 23, 2013 I've posted on here once before, the woman I am seeing almost called things off with me after I sent her a few drunk texts that made her feel guilty. I don't mean to sound offensive or come off pompous, but you decided to text her whilst drunk? Not wise. You know what alcohol does to you, don't let the beers and liquor talk for you. I hope you don't pull that stunt off again. Probably seems that way due to my lifestyle. Some might think i have the dream job. But working from home doing a job which is mostly automated leaves you with far too much spare time to yourself I know where you are coming from - being alone and not having much to do is a major bore and can cause you to rely heavily on just one thing for entertainment and interaction which isn't effective. Getting out and going on little excursions is something to try, its a lot more refreshing than sitting around waiting for someone.
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