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Did I scare him off? Can I get him back?


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Ok a little background information. I'm 26 he's 25. I've known him a year. We met at work. (We no longer work together so not an issue) 2 months ago we started seeing each other as more than friends. He would always say sweet things, call me beautiful, and initiate texts and dates. He even invited himself to my sisters wedding which is 8 months away. We were also talking once and I said I'd eventually like to move south. He said he did too and that it was nice to see our long term goals were the same.

 

So I obviously thought this guy is into me. So after our last date I started getting really insecure. Wondering where is this going? So last Thursday I texted him saying I thought he was acting weird. He said its in my head. I said maybe we should no longer see each other since I have feelings for him and we are in this in between area. He seemed upset by that. Finally we decided that was ridiculous and everything seemed ok. Well I texted him a silly joke Friday to break the ice and erase any awkwardness. No response... No text since and It's Monday morning. It's clear he's freaked out. What do I do? I NEVER am the one to tell a guy how I feel first but I've been told in the past by other men I appear indifferent and I did not want to lose this guy because he thought I was no interested.

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So he is not your boyfriend? So for the past two months you guys were just dating?

 

You should've just asked him to be your boyfriend. Instead of pushing him away.

 

Then again I find it odd, that after 60 days. For whatever reason, he hasn't asked you to be his gf. And you haven't asked him to be your bf, because you have a history of bein indifferent. One of you, doesnt like the other person that much.

 

I say just wait for him to initiate contact.

Edited by Woop1337
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