i wanted him and now he'll be mine..Why am I having second thoughts? is this normal?

[Emily55555]

In the last month or 2, I started to like my friend. Over the last month more and more until I liked him soo much. 2-3 weeks ago I told him and he felt the same. I've actually gone out with him before last year and we only lasted a month. I havent had a boyfriend for 6 months so it seems like a big deal to me.. So anyways we've hung out a couple time and last weekend I kissed him and it was great. So anyways we both started talking about going out again and I've been really happy and excited about it. (He told my best friend he'd ask me out friday when I saw him) But anywayz.. we were talking about rules and stuff.. that could help us through everything... like if theres a problem talk about it... tell the other person if theres something wrong... etc. So then he told me he wants a long realationship because he wants it to mean something. I've never had a realationship longer than 4 months, so i dont know if I can do it. I'm scared.. But newayz.. he keeps asking me "you want this.. long realationship and all".. and its kind of freaking me out. . All of a sudden I dont want to be with him as much and talk to him. I already said I would go out with him, because I wanted to really bad... but it's just that last night and today I've been kind of feeling like this all of a sudden (not liking him as much). Could this be because I'm afriad of having to commit to him? I want a long realationship too... but what if it doesnt work out? Even when I start thinking I can go out with him.. and if it doesnt work out I can dump him I still dont feel any better. Should I go out with him? Or not? Does anyone get what I'm saying? Do I really like him and this is a normal thing to all of a sudden be turned off... like and it was quick.. one minute I was extremely happy and couldn't stop smiling... another I wasn't sure about everything. I want myself to like him becuase I was soo happy like 2 days ago.. and the 2 months b4 that... I dunno I dont know if anyone can help me.. but give it a shot.. cuz I'd be soo greatful!

[Scarlett_girl]

u need to figure out why you feel the way you do..onlt then will you know the course of action you'll have to take..good luck! but jugding by your post..i think you like him alot and are just scared..but that's just my outsider opinion!!

[gridiron]

Had you two not gone out before, I would say it is unfair for him to put this kind of pressure on you about this being a long-term relationship. But the fact that you guys went out before and ended it changes things. Who ended it last time after one month and why? If you broke it off or even if it was mutual, it could be that he was hurt and does not want to get hurt again.