allen10981 Posted November 24, 2004 Posted November 24, 2004 Everyone knows that there is the other type of sex with a women that most of them dont like to do... Well one time i asked if my girl has ever done that before. She said no, never tried, and never wanted to. Last night when we were on our way to bed she was like "You know what we talked about before? I want to experience something new that neither of us have done, and i love you enough to try it even though it may hurt". She said she was thinkin about it for a little bit and asked herself if she loved me enough to try it, and her answer was yes. She said it hurt worse than her first time with normal sex, but she likes doing it because its something neither of us have ever done and she finds it to be a special thing she would have never, and will never do again should she be with another guy in the future. Is this normal?
SexiiPinkLadii Posted November 24, 2004 Posted November 24, 2004 I am assuming you're talking about anal sex....but in any case, I don't find it weird that she is saying that she will only do this with you and never with another man. She just feels that comfortable with you and loves you and wants this to stay in this relationship.
Author allen10981 Posted November 24, 2004 Author Posted November 24, 2004 Yes im talking about that, and when i say wierd i dont mean about the relationship the act means a lot to her because it is something that has never been done before by either of us, what im asking is if THAT is wierd? She sais even though it hurt the first time, it felt special because it was something new we were experiencing together because she loved me and wanted to do everything with me. (This girl is highly inexperienced as it is.) And she also said that it took a lot more love for her to do that than it did to lose her virginity because of how much more it would hurt the first time. i want to know if THAT is wierd.
gridiron Posted November 25, 2004 Posted November 25, 2004 Dude, stop overanalyzing. What she said to you tells you everything you need to know. You mentioned it to her once and that got her thinking. And she decided to give it a try out of curiosity and also out of love for you. And since it is less conventional and more painful for most girls, it was a bigger step for her to try it out, compared to her very first vaginal sex with you. I would be instead of .
Chan Posted November 25, 2004 Posted November 25, 2004 in my opinion i dont think thats weird it probly is more special becos she loves you and it is a big deal and should be special for the both of you,i think its very reasuring by her sayin that to you she obviously feels comfortable enough!
Author allen10981 Posted November 25, 2004 Author Posted November 25, 2004 I just wanted to know if i was wierd for feeling special doing that with her her ex man even tho she was with him for a long time always suggested it and she refused no matter what. When we do that its like something ive never and shes never done and i feel very close to her when it happens, just wanted to know i wasnt a nutball... lol thanks.
Chan Posted November 25, 2004 Posted November 25, 2004 no ur not things like that will make u feel closer becos its special and intimate for the both of you and for her to feel comfortable enuf to shld make u feel 'chuffed'()
Author allen10981 Posted November 25, 2004 Author Posted November 25, 2004 yea it feels really special
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