opaleye Posted November 24, 2004 Posted November 24, 2004 If someone cheats on every single partner they have ever had what does that mean about them? My ex cheated on all his girlfriends and stupidly I thought that I could be the one that he didn't cheat on- but of course he cheated on me and now he's with a new girl. So what does it mean about a person who does that? Do you think they will always be that way? And if someone cheats with you does that mean that they will probably cheat on you?
Weird Posted November 24, 2004 Posted November 24, 2004 yeah they will probably always be that way until someone either clues in or hears from the grapevine that the guy is a cheating prick. I have no idea why you thought that somehow he'd magically change for you but it seems that is a mentality many women have hence why so many a**h***s are with women and why those same women get burned by said a**h***s and are left wondering why. Hopefully you have learned from that mistake and won't get invovled with a serial cheater or any type of a**h*** in the future.
Lonestar Posted November 24, 2004 Posted November 24, 2004 Dude, is that really you in that pic? Going public, eh?
Honesty Posted November 25, 2004 Posted November 25, 2004 Oh you better bet that they will cheat on you
moon Posted November 25, 2004 Posted November 25, 2004 My ex told me the same thing (I thought he was bragging). He said he had cheated on every girl he had ever had (but he hadn't had a lot of real girlfriends). But we were together for about four years, on and off, and he did get together with some women on our off times and I never really considered that cheating. But what did he do in the end..........broke up with me and started dating another girl right away, who he was probably cheating with. Sorry, but somehow I find your post reassuring......so, now this is really sinking in. He cheated on me, he cheated on everyone else.....so YES he will also cheat on his new girlfriend.....yes I feel better already!!! But yeah, the same thing happened to me. Watch out for these losers who brag about how many women they have had (including while they were with somebody else)......they are trouble, no doubt about it. And what did his mother say about him? Mine said my ex was trouble....now I don't know of any worse recommendation. Unfortunately she told me that right at the VERY end of our relationship, so I didn't enter with that knowledge. But I came to that conclusion in the end myself.
mustang492 Posted November 26, 2004 Posted November 26, 2004 I know how you feel first hand. My GF cheated on me once very early on in the relationship and I caught her and she said she would never do it again so I let it go. Six years later she DID do it again with someone that I work with, and I've been broken up with her for almost two months now. I'm over her, I saw her the other day and said hi, and it was like seeing an old friend from high school, not my girlfriend. Sorry to say, but she is just like her mother. And I was very, very good to her, and she knew it but still couldnt control her "urges". Once a cheater, always a cheater. I can say that from first hand experience now. Enjoy bieng single for awhile, its not so bad.
Author opaleye Posted November 26, 2004 Author Posted November 26, 2004 Yeah Mustang, I know what you mean. You really want to be able to trust someone and you hope that your trust isn't misplaced- and you treat them so well and then they go ahead and do what you always hoped the wouldn't (but sometimes KNEW that they would). Six years is a long time. I'm glad that you are over her! I hope she will one day see what she threw away. But if not then whatever! Because you are getting on with your life and that's awesome. I'm getting over my ex. And it feels good. I never used to believe that whole "once a cheater always a cheater" thing. But I think now that I do, especially if it's happened in lots of different relationships. It's sad. But life goes on.
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