Ex MM showed bck up...loves me snd wants tp leave his wife.

[darleneislost]

It's been dix months dince dday. He chose her. Wanted to work on his marriage. Thst is whst he did for six mths little no contact. Then bam out of the blue he asks if I can talk in person. I was curious so I met him. He confessed he loved me. He tried to dp the right thing but he s been miserable. I'm on his mind non stop. He said he wanted toleave wife for me. He has never told me he loved me...it so nerve getging:( He broke my heart.will he really go? Why aftet six mths?

[2sunny]

It's nice words to hear. But no action has changed from him.

 

Tell him to contact when his divorce is FINAL. Until its final - and he provides evidence - its just empty words.

[lilmisscantbewrong]

Stay away from him until he has made a decision - actions - not words.

[whichwayisup]

He reached out to see if you were still there. An ego stroke. Notice how it's all about him? Not about you.

 

Tell him to leave you alone and only to call you when the D papers are signed and done. And then maybe you'll casually 'date' him in the proper way after some time has gone by when he's been on his own for a while.

 

He isn't leaving his wife, he was just seeing if you were waiting.

 

He said he wanted toleave wife for me.

 

Very bad and unhealthy to leave 'for' someone else. You know this too.

[waterwoman]

6 months in the honeymoon HB period is over. Wife is still pissed off and having bad days when she just cries and is angry with him. He is wondering if this phase will ever end. He's fed up with being the bad buy and constantly having to suck it up. This is why reconciling is so hard - it takes ages and its horrible to go through. He wants so respite. You look like respite to him. Tell him to come back when he is divorced.

[Solcita2]

I think he wanted to check where you're stading in case he does get a divorce...

It's up to you now... you can ask him to call you AFTER the divorce is over... or you can tell him now not to bother in calling you...