juanito14 Posted September 23, 2013 Posted September 23, 2013 Sorry for the repost, but I realized that this post belonged in this category. I started dating this girl I became close friends with last summer, but we called it off after 2 months because she was moving to another state early on in the relationship. We tried to make it work, but it was hard when the relationship was so new, and you couldn't see them. Whenever she came down to visit we would be together though. This last time she came down we had planned a road trip to see one of our friends that was living by his college. While we were driving I noticed her treating me differently(each time she came down she started treating me worse and worse) but this time was bad. Everything I did or didn't do led to ridicule. It got to the point where I was afraid to say anything around her because it would just get made fun of. She told me on the 4th day that there was no point of looking at her as anything more than a friend and I was okay with that because at least she was open and honest with me. Three nights later she starts hooking up with my friends roommate, right in front of me, and the thing is she initiated the whole thing. She would even look at me while he had his hand between her legs. I did my best to make things awkward for them because I was obviously not okay with seeing it. Her and I went outside to talk about it and she had this smile on her face the entire time, acting like I had no reason to be mad, and that it's her body, showing no empathy whatsoever. That night i told her I was done and wanted to go home the next day, which we did. I made it through a 6 and a half hour drive back with her. Not once did she say sorry or show any remorse. When she left I decided it was best to not communicate with her. Within a week she texted me, 'so you faked it?' implying that I was playing nice and was willing to be friends with her after. I didnt respond. 2 weeks after that she texted me again, telling me that she knows Im not talking to her, but she thinks we need to discuss things. And that she'll be there when I have time. I didn't respond. Then two days later, yesterday, she texted me that she is sorry, and that I can write her off as a whore right now, but I can't forever. And then she questioned whether I could or not. Later that night she texted me again saying she needed to talk and how it wasn't even about that night. Is it in my best interest to keep quiet as I have been, or does she deserve a response? I'm not trying to be an *** hole, Im just trying to look out for my best interest for once. It's been almost a month since I talked to her last.
Misfortune Posted September 23, 2013 Posted September 23, 2013 She does all of this fooling around in your face, never apologized until you gave up on her and you think you should go running back to her? I would keep on ignoring her and work on being with someone else that isn't disrespectful. Even if you were broken up, what she did is still messed up.
JoelBarish Posted September 23, 2013 Posted September 23, 2013 Like you said look out for your best interest for once. She didn't respect you so respect yourself. There are a lot of threads on these forums about people trying to get back with exes and most of the time it doesn't end well. Check it out and save yourself some grief
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