Author alphamale Posted November 28, 2004 Author Posted November 28, 2004 Originally posted by moimeme Women respect power and dominance *Some* women respect 'power and dominance'. Some are bored to tears by it. Yes, the beautiful women respect power & dominance. The ugly fat women are bored to tears by it.
moimeme Posted November 28, 2004 Posted November 28, 2004 Yes, the beautiful women respect power & dominance. The ugly fat women are bored to tears by it. There's nothing uglier than stupidity. And people who make boneheaded statements are exceedingly unattractive.
tokyo Posted November 28, 2004 Posted November 28, 2004 Originally posted by alphamale Yes, the beautiful women respect power & dominance. The ugly fat women are bored to tears by it. Dream on.....
Proto Posted November 28, 2004 Posted November 28, 2004 Originally posted by alphamale Yes, the beautiful women respect power & dominance. The ugly fat women are bored to tears by it. My GOD you are a moron! LOL!! Oh, and Kooky, thank you for the very nice compliment.
tokyo Posted November 28, 2004 Posted November 28, 2004 Originally posted by Proto Oh, and Kooky, thank you for the very nice compliment. You´re welcome.
princess rose Posted November 28, 2004 Posted November 28, 2004 Take it from a former bad-boy magnet, it gets REALLY tiresome, and emotionally draining to date bad boys, because they are like vampires, as they will suck the life out of you. I agree wholeheartedly with what Gridiron said, in that a man must strike a balance between being too accomodating and too much of an a**hole.
Author alphamale Posted November 28, 2004 Author Posted November 28, 2004 Originally posted by princess rose Take it from a former bad-boy magnet, it gets REALLY tiresome, and emotionally draining to date bad boys, because they are like vampires, as they will suck the life out of you. I agree wholeheartedly with what Gridiron said, in that a man must strike a balance between being too accomodating and too much of an a**hole. Yes, I agree that a real man must be nice and not-so-nice at the same time. This is what the vast majority of normal females are llooking for. This is a hard combo for many men however. For many women I believe it is natural for them to be nice and bitchy all wrapped in one.
Author alphamale Posted November 28, 2004 Author Posted November 28, 2004 Originally posted by moimeme Yes, the beautiful women respect power & dominance. The ugly fat women are bored to tears by it. There's nothing uglier than stupidity. And people who make boneheaded statements are exceedingly unattractive. I don't know, in the real world I see exceeding beautiful women with dominant and powerful males who are successful. They like to date and marry doctors and lawyers and senators and rich musicians, etc..... I don't see Pamala Anderson or Jessica Simpson hanging out with janitors and middle school teachers. This is the way of the world folks, wake up an look around. Men look for beauty and youth and women look for powerful men with money and status.
moimeme Posted November 28, 2004 Posted November 28, 2004 More like some rich and powerful men need trophy wives to try to convince their rich and powerful buddies that they are actually virile. And some beautiful women know this and take full advantage because they can. Truly matches made in heaven So apparently your analysis of relationships is based on the shallow world of the very few very privileged.
Author alphamale Posted November 28, 2004 Author Posted November 28, 2004 Originally posted by moimeme So apparently your analysis of relationships is based on the shallow world of the very few very privileged. Well MOIMEME, there are very few rich and powerful men in the world. And also, very few exceeding pretty women (aka Cathy Zeta-Jones, etc...). There are many women fighting over the rich powerful men and many men fighting over the gorgeous young women. So each can take their pick. And when they do take their pick, they choose the pick of the litter. But when all things are equal almost any woman will choose a rich powerful man as a mate, unfortuanately 99% of them can't attract a man like that. And same other way round. Most men would choose a young and very attractive mate but unfortuanltely 99% of them cannot atttract a woman like that.
tokyo Posted November 28, 2004 Posted November 28, 2004 Alphamale, first you say that only the beautiful women like powerful men and now you say it´s 99 %. In general I think women do tend to prefer a guy who is their equal while men would prefer a good-looking woman who is not too dumb over an intelligent women who is average looking.
moimeme Posted November 28, 2004 Posted November 28, 2004 But when all things are equal almost any woman will choose a rich powerful man as a mate, unfortuanately 99% of them can't attract a man like that. And same other way round. Most men would choose a young and very attractive mate but unfortuanltely 99% of them cannot atttract a woman like that. I think that these discussions are ridiculous because beauty is in the eye of the beholder and not all women want money and power. And beauty turns wrinkly and old as fast as regular folks do. But, hey, you're welcome to believe in bogus generalizations. All faiths are welcome here.
Proto Posted November 29, 2004 Posted November 29, 2004 Originally posted by kooky Alphamale, first you say that only the beautiful women like powerful men and now you say it´s 99 %. In general I think women do tend to prefer a guy who is their equal while men would prefer a good-looking woman who is not too dumb over an intelligent women who is average looking. SOME men want that. There are lots of men out there who put intelligence and character first and foremost before physical appearance.
zara Posted November 29, 2004 Posted November 29, 2004 There are lots of men out there who put intelligence and character first and foremost before physical appearance. But what do men do when faced with both? I do like to be the giggly girly (sorry, Moi ) and i really can fit the 'trophy' mould very well - that's what i get paid for. But i am also fiercely intelligent and capable, but why is it that this just does not compute with most men? So that they end up treating me as though i am stupid (becasue they wish i was) or resnting my inteeligence, or they get paranoid and jealous over my looks? Or maybe i should just give up on 'normal' guys and go find some of the rich and powerful alphamales i'm not attracted to?
Author alphamale Posted November 29, 2004 Author Posted November 29, 2004 Originally posted by zara Or maybe i should just give up on 'normal' guys and go find some of the rich and powerful alphamales i'm not attracted to? THe above is impossible for you because it is already coded in your genes after thousands of yrs of evolution. It would be like saying that a man is not attracted to some gorgeous hollywood actress such as Cathy Zeta Jones. That is why she is a star, cause she appeals to many women AND men. See Zara, if you had two men to choose from and both had the exact same qualities (looks, personality, body, intelligence, etc....) except one was rich and had power and the other did not you would ALWAYS choose the rich dude.
tokyo Posted November 29, 2004 Posted November 29, 2004 Most men if presented with two women who possess the same qualitites lookwise, same personality, etc, except that one is rich with power would chose the latter. What´s the point here in your argumentation??? Wealth, beauty, intelligence, etc. are all qualities that a lot of people pursue, the difference is the ranking. Some things are more important than others. But given the choice people will always try to get the best.
morrigan Posted November 29, 2004 Posted November 29, 2004 Who wants a man reeking of power and dominance? Sounds like a smelly cologne a guy would spray on to attract women. Dominance, aloofness or charm in a man are big yawns for me. Some men and women place attractiveness of mind and character above the shell. Not everyone buys into the Hollywood BS a la Rudolph Valentino (dominance at the cost of character and compassion) or Marilyn Monroe (sexy but mentally nonthreatening).
zara Posted November 29, 2004 Posted November 29, 2004 Originally posted by alphamale See Zara, if you had two men to choose from and both had the exact same qualities (looks, personality, body, intelligence, etc....) except one was rich and had power and the other did not you would ALWAYS choose the rich dude. Nope. Because it depends on where your personal priorities and ambitions lie. The very fact that one had money and power could well change some of those other traits of his personality, which would mean that a woman might no longer find him so attractive. I was once in a relationship with a man i loved with all my heart and he and i dreamed of building a little houseboat and living an ecologically friendly life as artists and musicians. We didn't have much money but we were so incredibly happy together. Now, seven years later i was with a man who had much more money, a good job, i.e. greater wealth and power, but if that penniless dreamer had walked through the door and said he still loved me and wanted me back, i would have left without a second thought. In my job i meet a lot of people with wealth and power and all i would ever want is their money in my g-string. I wouldn't/ couldn't enter into a relationship with someone based on their wealth and power - it's not just that i am a Romantic (and i am) but also that dependence involved in such a relationship that implies that i am incapable of weilding my own wealth and power. And i am very capable of doing precisely that.
Author alphamale Posted November 29, 2004 Author Posted November 29, 2004 Originally posted by zara The very fact that one had money and power could well change some of those other traits of his personality, which would mean that a woman might no longer find him so attractive. No you seem to misunderstand. I said if two men were already EXACTLY the same but one was rich and one was poor that women would choose the first. What if your first houseboat boyfriend came back and had won the lotto for $10 million and professed his undying love 4 u? Would you reject him cause now he is rich?
mandimay Posted November 29, 2004 Posted November 29, 2004 I was just in a conversation about this last night... My opinion: It's all about the challenge. The woman (me, for example) is sitting there thinking, "Hey, I'm a good catch...but wait...why is this guy being so crappy to me...No way...What's wrong with me? Well, I'll show you...But why can't I get you off my mind? Because I haven't conquered you...that's it...So, I'll keep trying." It's a sucky theory but oh-so-true in my personal experiences.
Charlane Posted December 5, 2004 Posted December 5, 2004 Originally posted by alphamale Let's see...this dead horse has probably been beaten multiple times already but here goes: As I get older (i'm 39) I see that many women subconciously love excitement and romance and unpredicatability in their men. Some men recongnize that and have figured out over time that to keep a woman's interest level high they cannot treat them too well or too badly. The key is to be in the middle. Here are some more observations I have made: - women say they want nice men but they date and sleep with jerks who treat them badly - bad boyz have masculine traits that drive women wild - nice boyz tend to finish last with women or if they do find women THEY get walked all over - women tend to respect men who are men and are not spineless jellyfish I used to be a "nice guy" when I was in my 20's but learned over time that you get walked all over and taken advantage of. So I then decided to treat women well sometimes and badly other times. This has worked well cause now I have women running after me and dating is no longer a problem. I would just like random thoughts and feedback from both sexes and your experiences. You are just marking time. Women as a whole seem to be in that mindset presently and truthfully, it's all socioeconomical. Everyone is phat, in debt and happy with all of the trinkets we buy for ourselves and the lack of worry for paying the rent. As is the case with history, that is getting ready to change and before long, you will be chasing your tail again because your theory won't work anymore.....at least until the next cycle. Women have been somewhat fearful in the dating scheme. Before long, they will collectively tell you where to you and how easily to get there.
komi Posted December 6, 2004 Posted December 6, 2004 Ain't it simple: **** your woman as you eat your fish. She is destined to satisfy your desire. To use is what your really need, to be used is what she really needs.
Pocky Posted December 6, 2004 Posted December 6, 2004 I prefer intelligent men over "bad boys". I have no use for a man that acts like a bastard and doesn't have the intelligence to back it up.
Author alphamale Posted December 6, 2004 Author Posted December 6, 2004 Originally posted by Pocky I prefer intelligent men over "bad boys". I have no use for a man that acts like a bastard and doesn't have the intelligence to back it up. Well see Pocky, my definition of a "BAD BOY" per se is a man who is good looking, intelligent, successful, funny, witty, etc etc etc... These are the proverbial "bad boys" that can get away with bad behavior cause they are the ones that most of the women in the room are interested in. So it is easy for them to take advantage of women, and most of them do. It would be hard for a fat, balding, dumb and unsuccessful guy to be a "bad boy". Mainly cause most women won't even give them the time of day! Do you see what i'm trying to say Pocky??? Of course, this applies in reverse also.
tokyo Posted December 6, 2004 Posted December 6, 2004 Originally posted by alphamale Well see Pocky, my definition of a "BAD BOY" per se is a man who is good looking, intelligent, successful, funny, witty, etc etc etc... A woman with the same features would have the same advantages.....
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