robbysurfs Posted September 23, 2013 Posted September 23, 2013 I have not been with my ex for about 4-5 months now nc she dumped me. I totally made it easy for her I didn't harass I just had acceptance and did what anyone that is hurt does disappear lick your wounds until your healed. Out of sight out of mind but I recently went back on ok-cupid and I have been going on dates. I saw my ex's profile and at first I was like damn this sucks and I did not I repeat did not click on her profile. I have to admit I was happy I saw her profile and I was like ya she still is single. The very next day I looked up her profile and it was gone...This is the beginning of my mind f.... if ya know what I mean. I know its none of my bussiness and its over I have to move on. There was never any closure and she one day up and stopped getting in contact with me. We did the after break up date/sex for a few months I am just still confused and lost any suggestions is appreciated. Right now its all in my mind it is me vs me and the glass half empty me is winning.
Gra Posted September 23, 2013 Posted September 23, 2013 I have not been with my ex for about 4-5 months now nc she dumped me. I totally made it easy for her I didn't harass I just had acceptance and did what anyone that is hurt does disappear lick your wounds until your healed. Out of sight out of mind but I recently went back on ok-cupid and I have been going on dates. I saw my ex's profile and at first I was like damn this sucks and I did not I repeat did not click on her profile. I have to admit I was happy I saw her profile and I was like ya she still is single. The very next day I looked up her profile and it was gone...This is the beginning of my mind f.... if ya know what I mean. I know its none of my bussiness and its over I have to move on. There was never any closure and she one day up and stopped getting in contact with me. We did the after break up date/sex for a few months I am just still confused and lost any suggestions is appreciated. Right now its all in my mind it is me vs me and the glass half empty me is winning. Ick, that's my nightmare to go onto the dating site I met my ex on and see him on there looking for someone new. But perhaps she saw your profile too and didn't click on it but decided to just take herself off for some reason. Maybe 1
Misfortune Posted September 23, 2013 Posted September 23, 2013 Keep licking your wounds and try to move on with your life. 1
Author robbysurfs Posted September 23, 2013 Author Posted September 23, 2013 perhaps that is where the dilemma lies who knows what the helll arggggggggggggggggggghhh I cant yell in my apt....
Gra Posted September 23, 2013 Posted September 23, 2013 perhaps that is where the dilemma lies who knows what the helll arggggggggggggggggggghhh I cant yell in my apt.... I know the feeling. The worst part is that when we don't know the answers, our minds automatically go to the worst possible scenarios. It's ridiculous. And it hurts like hell. I know I"m not helping much. But just know you're not alone. 1
Jenny1234 Posted September 23, 2013 Posted September 23, 2013 I am so paranoid I will see my ex out there too....just waiting to see his face flash by ........ I feel your pain 1
Author robbysurfs Posted September 23, 2013 Author Posted September 23, 2013 It did not hurt to see her on there it just made my wheels spin when she closed or whatever her acct.. Because the dumpee part of me was like she is gonna see im on here and think why did I break up with this guy or maybe send me a message. I mean I am a handsome guy and my profile is pretty good I been on 3 dates in the past week. Its all crazy I had to literally take a nap after seeing she was not on there the thinking was insane...
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