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why is he rushing things with her?


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so my ex bf is seeing the girl he cheated one me with. his sister been telling me that he trys really hard to get his brother and sister to approve of her. he says that shes's "all about family" im just afraid that he is rushing things i don't want that girl around my son for a while. his family doesn't want her around either. he tells his sister that he really likes her but shes not his gf or anything.i don't get a good vibe off this girl but maybe im just jealous of him bringing another girl into my sons life. i don't know why hes rushing things. im just afraid of him bringing another girl around when hes not even sure of what he wants i dont want my son being affected by all this.How do i tell him without fighting to keep this girl away from my son until im comfortable with it? or should i just bite my tongue and stay out of it?

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I would stay out of it unless it becomes harmful to my child. As it stands now, that's his relationship issues. You can't always be there to know who's around your child. You have to hope that he's mature enough to keep the child from being negatively affected.

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