irresolute Posted September 22, 2013 Posted September 22, 2013 Hi all! So, supposedly I have a date tomorrow with this guy I met online couple weeks ago. It's our first date. I was very excited to meeting him, however, he has been inconsistent with communication: We messaged on Thursday night. He invited me for a date this Monday. I said yes, I was so excited but I was going to confirm him on Friday. I confirmed on Friday. He replied how we shall communicate on Monday (??) I proposed I could text him, and asked for his number again. Silence Silence Silence then he just messaged with his number. Today, Sunday morning. We are supposed to meet tomorrow yet he messaged with his number and not a word. He hasn't confirmed yet our date. honestly, I'm flaking right now. what do you think?
happywithlife Posted September 22, 2013 Posted September 22, 2013 I think you should stop worrying and simply text him confirming your plans for tomorrow. He probably doesn't want to invest too much emotions into this before meeting. If its like an hour before the date and you still haven't heard back from your text confirming, then text him and let him know you aren't going b/c he never confirmed.
ExpatInItaly Posted September 22, 2013 Posted September 22, 2013 Stop over-thinking it. You don't know him very well. Like the other poster said, he probably doesn't want to get too involved just yet when you barely know each other. He sent you his number. Give the guy a chance. Text him to confirm your plans for tomorrow. If he doesn't reply, then I would bail.
Author irresolute Posted September 22, 2013 Author Posted September 22, 2013 Hey, no way I'm confirming! I'm not that desperate to have to text a man to confirm our date, c'mon! anyone else think I have to text him? Or should I wait until he says something? Las email was this morning with his phone number and nothing more...
happywithlife Posted September 22, 2013 Posted September 22, 2013 OP your post states that you would text him and then he gave you his number. Balls in your court. Text him to confirm because you said you would. You aren't acting like a desperate girl by confirming, you are following through with your communications like you said you would in a previous conversation with him.
Menina Posted September 22, 2013 Posted September 22, 2013 Give the guy a break, I mean two days pass without him not contacting you? He may be busy, something may have happened, etc., the important thing is that he messaged you his number which means that he's interested in seeing you tomorrow. Confirming him is in no way being desperate, if he gave you his number he's expecting your message. Don't over analyze the time between messages/text yet. Some people are attached to their phones/computers and answer back as soon as they receive a text/message, other people take it slow and rather answer back when they have time for it.
Author irresolute Posted September 22, 2013 Author Posted September 22, 2013 He asked me how we should communicate on Monday, then I suggested texting him, I never said him I was the one confirming! Even more, now he's online on yahoo, I'm online too, and neither of us is starting any conversation, ugh
heartshaped Posted September 22, 2013 Posted September 22, 2013 Stop being so ridiculous. Sounds like both of you are playing games. Just message him and have it over with.
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