Jordanbro Posted September 22, 2013 Posted September 22, 2013 A couple weeks ago, i met a girl on good friends party, she was there together with her boyfriend. What i can i say, it just hit me. Immediately, there was some connection, it was like we would know each other for years. We talked a lot that night and met than 4 days later again on a party. Her boyfriend wasnt there, because he lives in another city. So, we had a pretty good time, drank a lot, laughed...and she went home with me...The sex was incredible, and it was like she wouldnt spend any thought on her boyfriend. Afterwards we talked an she said, that she has also felt the connection we had and that she has never experienced something like that. She said she would call me.After one week she just texted me on fb, saying she couldnt leave her boyfriend etc blablabla. and added, maybe in another life, we would come together... i was pretty sad...i think she's my soulmate... whats your opinion, should i go for her and fight?
Rugger1869 Posted September 22, 2013 Posted September 22, 2013 if she would do that to her bf, what makes you think she wouldn't do that to you? I'd just enjoy that night for what it was and move on, brocephus.
travelbug1996 Posted September 22, 2013 Posted September 22, 2013 her character is shady. just because there is physical chemistry it doesn't mean you will make a good couple. Lose the fantasy.
BeholdtheMan Posted September 22, 2013 Posted September 22, 2013 If she can cheat with you, she can cheat on you...please bro, pick a girl with better character. You're only thinking with your little head here
93TheHitStick Posted September 22, 2013 Posted September 22, 2013 ...soulmate its called lust bro. You don't know her to say that she is her soulmate. You have to know someone for at least 6 months to really know them. The only thing you truly know about her is that she is unfaithful. Based on that alone i wouldn't try to date her. I would keep taming her though.
Atem Posted September 22, 2013 Posted September 22, 2013 Stop thinking with your hormones/dick and activate your brain. Here's what happened: - girl's BF was away and she felt horny - you more or less fit her profile in terms of looks and non-repulsive personality - you ****ed - she let you down easy by first saying some crap about the connection u guys had and then by following it up with a FB rejection (read: rejection from a "safe" distance) Here's what u should do: Move the **** on and go sleep with other women. The "best" case for the 2 of u would be being ****buddies from time to time - though I wouldnt recommend it since u mistakenly seem to have let emotions enter the picture. So, as I said, move on. As a bonus - here's a similar story from my end: - met a girl 3 months or so ago and we kinda hit it off - after the 2nd "date" I got the vibe that she definitely isn't serious GF material, so I let that one go in my mind (read: no emotions) - since then we've met on and off with several weeks in between meetings to **** - we text in between but far from regularly (like 5 or so texts a week) - when we meet, we usually use each other to vent about **** that's going on in our respective lives (after ****ing, that is) - we both know that this is nothing serious and that either of us doesnt really give a **** about the other - however, the sex is good, so we do it from time to time This only works if u have your head in check, though. If ure harboring some sort of stupid fantasy about getting together with her for real, run for the hills and never look back. If you dont, there'll only be pain and disappointment waiting for you with her...
Kelly15 Posted September 22, 2013 Posted September 22, 2013 This girl isn't your soulmate, she would've dumped her boyfriend the next day if so. Once the honeymoon phase wore off , would you be able to trust her knowing her you got her?? Write this off.
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