BowtiesAndGel Posted September 22, 2013 Posted September 22, 2013 Okay, so i've always known I was bi. In 8th grade, the first time I saw this girl I instantly fell for her. I got to the point that whenever I saw her I just froze... over the year we've gotten way closer, she's like my best friend but I still love her.. A lot. She says she's pretty sure she's straight, but its not stopping me from liking her.. She has no idea I like her either and its been over a year. I'm now in 9th grade and I still hang out with her with every chance I get because she goes to another school but we still talk almost every day. There's this kid Mike I met this year and he figured out I had a tiny crush on him and he said he didn't like me but last night, we hung out and we kissed.. A lot.. And held hands but I don't know if it's official and I don't even know if I like him like that.. Either way, I don't think i'll ever love mike.. or anyone.. Like I love my best friend. I really do not know what to do. Help?
loveman39284 Posted September 22, 2013 Posted September 22, 2013 your in 9th grade you have no idea what love is. you may love her because shes your best friend but thats it. its just a kiss and this dude is in high school also he has no idea what love is either and he is probably not looking for love only sex. just have fun with life, dont tell your friend because you'll probably lose her forever just keep being friends with her and if somethings gonna happen then something is going to happen. there is going to be plenty of opportunities in life with her. maybe junior or senior prom you'll get with her.. best of luck
devilish innocent Posted September 23, 2013 Posted September 23, 2013 If your friend is straight, then she's unavailable to you. You're young, and you will develop strong feelings for other people again. You should consider how you feel about the guy you kissed the other night. If there's really nothing there, then there's no point in continuing things. But if there are some feelings, you might want to start dating him and see how things go. Love doesn't always hit you right over the head at once, so the feelings could grow stronger with time. If you do decide to date him, just take things slow at first.
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