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ex sending me mixed signals. should i contact her?


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are you f*cking kidding me?!!! if you should take time to read my story before you judge me and jump to conclusions!

 

i'm not lazy, i worked hard to start my own business, she left because i don't have a degree, which you don't need in my field. and she's not after my money either, she just wants a guy with a 'title.' i was never abusive to her, she was the one who was emotionally and verbally abusive, i was passive and got depressed from it.

 

Im sorry to say if you think the only reason she left was because of "no degree" then I would get ready for a real bumpy road here soon....UNLESS you stop reading blogs and following what she is doing.

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MntBiker said it all. STOP READING HER BLOG!!!!

 

You over-analyze everything ESPECIALLY when you haven't healed!!

 

It's like you read this on her blog, " OMG, I read something that as sooo funny that it made me want to pee!"

 

You would think, " Okay, she has to pee. Is she out on a date? Because she's always had a problem with public restrooms. So, that could be a problem with her. But, she might be over at that guys place. Would she feel comfortable enough with this guy to use his toilet? She could catch something. CRABS!!! But, she could be at home and needing to pee. Which means that she's NOT out on a date and maybe she holding out for me? Maybe I have a chance!

 

But she laughed at something she read? What did she read? Was it something about me? Did someone tell her something about me and now she's have a laugh at me?"

 

See, so STOP READING HER BLOGS!!!!! And her facebook, and twitter, and tumblr and instagram......all of it!

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woah, wouldn't you know i was right, she just texted me something. i didn't read it though. after all that "over thinking" i was right, all those posts were about me. i'm going to read it later when i'm ready, i'll let you guys know what's up.

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woah, wouldn't you know i was right, she just texted me something. i didn't read it though. after all that "over thinking" i was right, all those posts were about me. i'm going to read it later when i'm ready, i'll let you guys know what's up.

 

Don't read the posts. It does nothing constructive for you. Stop following her on social media.

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Don't read the posts. It does nothing constructive for you. Stop following her on social media.

 

she just texted me.

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she just texted me.

 

Don't answer that either. And that doesn't change my advice. You need to stop following her.

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You are becoming her play thing :(

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Alright so they were about you. So she is a passive-aggressive. Those folks rarely have stable relationships. I would continue to ignore her unless she specifically spells out her grievances directly to you, and she specifically states she wants a relationship with you directly to you.

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she just texted me.

 

You are SO trying to "show us up" with stuff its comical. Why come om here and ask advice if you try and battle everyone? Don't say any of us didn't warn you.

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