johns444 Posted September 22, 2013 Posted September 22, 2013 i am 22 yrs old, i've been with my girlfrend for close to 3 years now.it was a long distance relationship.we used to talk all the time,we were always happy and whenever she'd come back home we were always together.about a week ago she told me she was losing it "the in love feeling".i love this girl so much its tearing me to pieces.i broke up with her this morning but i really want to ask her back.we havent talked since the incident because i just sent her a text message,i dont know what to do i feel like i cant live without her and the worst bit is that i feel she wouldnt mind losing me yet im sitting here feeling like ive lost my world.what should i do. someone please help
Faith13/2 Posted September 23, 2013 Posted September 23, 2013 Let everything work out for itself. Long distance relationships can be tough and add a lot of extra stress on a couple. There's a chance she may be gone for good, but there's also a chance if you give yourselves space she may actually miss you.
Author johns444 Posted September 23, 2013 Author Posted September 23, 2013 thanks faith, im sure she's gone for good.this is not the 1st time we are breaking up like this.maybe she had alredy stopped loving me but was still in denial.i miss her so much though.ive tried calling her sevral times today,left so many messages but im done now.i'll let it work itself as you've said and if i've lost her for good, then it could be for the better because if she's always losing the love,what will happen when we are 10 years into it then she tells me she doesnt love me anymore? faith, even if the time comes and she misses me, i think i better not take her back.its just so much pain.cant sleep,cant focus on anything! im completely paralysed by the thought of her not loving me.
coolheadal Posted September 24, 2013 Posted September 24, 2013 That love will always be there but not as strong as you had hope. These things happen. Everyone can't hold on they need someone to fill the shoes right now. LDR tough situation can hurt you in the gut, but you need to move on! It will hurt but if you think with the intent of moving on and thinking what it will be like with someone near you? You'll end up being much more stronger. First take a deep breath and leave the house and take a walk or go watch a comedy something to make you laugh get your mind off of this situation.
jacksonvillae Posted September 26, 2013 Posted September 26, 2013 There are plenty more girls thats just an option, I understand 2 years with a person must be BIG, so if she doesn't feel the same just distance away, it can take day to weeks she realizes she misses you, and she will probably talk about it, ifnot talk to her and see if you both can try again
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