aus1 Posted September 22, 2013 Posted September 22, 2013 Is it possible to have a good relationship or a relationship at all with a co worker? Starting to date someone I work with, is it possible?
Sum12Luv Posted September 22, 2013 Posted September 22, 2013 Don't crap where you eat! I've done it once. Coworkers will try to get in your business/interfere. Not to mention,if you break up,you'll have to see their face.
Author aus1 Posted September 22, 2013 Author Posted September 22, 2013 everything is fine however there is one co worker who is just down right rude ever since he found about about me dating the other co worker.
Sum12Luv Posted September 22, 2013 Posted September 22, 2013 Of course it is. You said you just started. Why? is this coworker jealous?
Menina Posted September 22, 2013 Posted September 22, 2013 Is it possible to have a good relationship or a relationship at all with a co worker? Starting to date someone I work with, is it possible? Of course it is possible, my ex was my co-worker and we worked it out pretty good. Just set the rules about how to act during work, it's not good that everybody knows you two are dating because it can have consecuences (from the rumors to supervisors taking action). Me and my boyfriend were really low, almost nobody at work knew we were going out together, and it was kind of a thrill because when we had the chance we sneaked to the warehouse or somewhere off cameras to kiss and fool around. Outside of work, we did have a normal relationship, fortunately the only coworkers we encountered while on dates were friends so they weren't spilling the beans. It sounds like such a hassle having to "hide" your relationship at work but it really wasn't, we had lunch together and hanged out together with the other colleagues as if we were only coworkers and then at night or during our free days we spent our time together.
Author aus1 Posted September 22, 2013 Author Posted September 22, 2013 Of course it is. You said you just started. Why? is this coworker jealous? I think he is. I didn't want to start any drama at work though. Of course it is possible, my ex was my co-worker and we worked it out pretty good. Just set the rules about how to act during work, it's not good that everybody knows you two are dating because it can have consecuences (from the rumors to supervisors taking action). Me and my boyfriend were really low, almost nobody at work knew we were going out together, and it was kind of a thrill because when we had the chance we sneaked to the warehouse or somewhere off cameras to kiss and fool around. Thank you, your response helped me a lot. Hope it's not rude to ask but how did you two break up? And everyone at my work already knows by now. His sister works with us as well and news travels fast. I know some relationships work out well and others just fall apart, hence my asking before it gets serious.
Menina Posted September 22, 2013 Posted September 22, 2013 Thank you, your response helped me a lot. Hope it's not rude to ask but how did you two break up? And everyone at my work already knows by now. His sister works with us as well and news travels fast. I know some relationships work out well and others just fall apart, hence my asking before it gets serious. No worries, we breaking up had nothing to do with working together, we broke up because he had some communication issues and it was difficult for me to discuss with him serious matters about our relationship, and I started realizing that sooner or later that was going to be a problem, specially when I imagined ourselves living together. So, I broke things up but we still remain in contact every now and then, he's a great guy unfortunately he's the "avoider" type and that's a dealbreaker for me (avoids dealing with issues or talking about where the relationship stands/is going). Actually after two years of dating almost all of our closest colleagues either knew or had their suspicions, but nobody cared and the supervisors were too busy to deal with it. We never had problems with being coworkers and our job never was an issue between us. It was actually nice having someone to talk about work who understood, or someone who knew when not to ask about work. At work we just treated each other with respect and avoided any kind of PDA, which was also good because it builded up the sexual tension among us and when we were alone (after work) we went to each other like animals .
Author aus1 Posted September 23, 2013 Author Posted September 23, 2013 No worries, we breaking up had nothing to do with working together, we broke up because he had some communication issues and it was difficult for me to discuss with him serious matters about our relationship, and I started realizing that sooner or later that was going to be a problem, specially when I imagined ourselves living together. So, I broke things up but we still remain in contact every now and then, he's a great guy unfortunately he's the "avoider" type and that's a dealbreaker for me (avoids dealing with issues or talking about where the relationship stands/is going). Actually after two years of dating almost all of our closest colleagues either knew or had their suspicions, but nobody cared and the supervisors were too busy to deal with it. We never had problems with being coworkers and our job never was an issue between us. It was actually nice having someone to talk about work who understood, or someone who knew when not to ask about work. At work we just treated each other with respect and avoided any kind of PDA, which was also good because it builded up the sexual tension among us and when we were alone (after work) we went to each other like animals . Haha thats so true I know what you mean about the avoider part, it's like you can't have a proper conversation with someone like that. My concern is that some co workers are going to get jealous which I think one of them is or they start making rumors up or start **** stirring.
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