Phthonos Posted September 22, 2013 Posted September 22, 2013 So after months since the break up for the first time I feel content, and no longer thinking about my ex, or hope that we will get together. The feeling feels so refreshing like being over a curse. To me its still kinda sad that I put myself through 7 months of sadness and painful wishful thinking to end up where I knew I would be at the end anyway. Also what helped me a lot which I think will work for others too is to do a lot of things like traveling ect. It wont make you just all the sudden make you forget about your ex but what it will do is create new amazing moments in your life, and as you build these it will start to overwrite the past events which included you ex. So over time when your brain starts thinking of past events it will go first to the newer ones post ex rather then the events you had with your ex. Now I just wish finding another great girlfriend was easy. It took me a really long time to find a good girlfriend, and I have been single for a very long time until my ex. I guess I just need to build up more confidence, and be less passive, and just be a man and ask a pretty girl out when I see them 3
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