Rlife Posted September 22, 2013 Posted September 22, 2013 My ex and I have been broken up for two years now, this morning, I received a message from him. We have not talked for over a year now, this is what I received: Conversation started Wednesday "Hey. I'm pretty sure you can guess who this is. I just wanted to see how life was going? I noticed you finally got a hedgehog, thats awesome. Just wanted to let you know that I'm actually married now, yeah... life moves quick... I finished 2 years of college... but managed to remoev myself from the hospital ... and now I'm part of a company lol, so.. huge life change within the last time we talked. I just wanted to catch up, I never had any intentions on trying to get back together I just wanted to be friends that talked but my other half didn't like that clearly. So I messaged you on a account i've had since i've lived in montreal just never used it Anywho, if you don't reply back its cool just thought I'd message you cause I was looking through my old photos and saw a picture of tux and you were saying "remember when we raised him?" By the way.. how is tux? I sure do miss boots, think about him every day. " Unsure why or what he wants, we broke up two years ago, and now he is married. Why would he even bother to contact me if he has a wife?
Salvatore85 Posted September 22, 2013 Posted September 22, 2013 People do this because they suck. They want to boost their ego and honestly if he's hiding it from his wife, something he clearly stated makes her uncomfortable, he's obviously a douche. Delete it and continue moving on with your life. 2
Sparkle304 Posted September 22, 2013 Posted September 22, 2013 I think he just wants to see how you're doing. I've done the same thing....after not seeing or hearing from my ex in years, I contacted him basically because I was simply curious. Nothing more...
ScienceGal Posted September 22, 2013 Posted September 22, 2013 I rarely get angry and curse on here, but F*CK this guy! Reaching out without wanting reconciliation? Lying to his wife about it? Messaging you on a private account? He either wants to have his ego stroked or he wants an affair. Either way, this has zero value to you. Don't respond. 1
Author Rlife Posted September 22, 2013 Author Posted September 22, 2013 If he is married he shouldn't be contacting me. It is completely disrespectful towards her. Its been over a year, I have no clue why he would want to catch up, especially when hes planning on starting his own family now, and we live in different provinces. 1
ScienceGal Posted September 22, 2013 Posted September 22, 2013 If he is married he shouldn't be contacting me. It is completely disrespectful towards her. Its been over a year, I have no clue why he would want to catch up, especially when hes planning on starting his own family now, and we live in different provinces. Seriously disrespectful. He has little integrity. Just know, whatever his reason, there is nothing good in it for you. Delete and block.
Sparkle304 Posted September 22, 2013 Posted September 22, 2013 I really think you're reading too much into his email. People do check up on past friends and old flames with no underlying intentions...........Simply want to see how you're doing.
ScienceGal Posted September 22, 2013 Posted September 22, 2013 I really think you're reading too much into his email. People do check up on past friends and old flames with no underlying intentions...........Simply want to see how you're doing. They don't when it means lying to their spouse. He had a completely selfish underlying intention, even if small. Bad news. 1
JDPT Posted September 22, 2013 Posted September 22, 2013 Zero respect for his wife. I feel bad for her. 4
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