holly711 Posted September 21, 2013 Posted September 21, 2013 I met a guy I know for like 6 years a week ago on a party. We haven't seen each other for about 2 years,because I travel a lot and be not much around. During the evening, he complained about that fact. However,every time in the past, when we met, we made out a little bit, but it never came to an end because he was always too drunk. Same story this time, except for the fact we've been in his flat and he really tried to make me sleep with him. I had to tell him, again, he is too drunk. But because I was getting tired of this, I passed him my number and told him, he should call when he's sober. Until today, nothing happened. I know that he works a lot, like 7 days a week...but I usually keep it with the ''3 days rule''...So, after all this, I really don't understand why he is not calling...I pointed out very clear I guess, that if he would call we could meet for sex. (Because I'm not looking for a relationship right now and it is kinda obvious that this is, what he wanted from me^^) When I was about to leave, he asked for a goodnight kiss and I responded:'' well if you walk me to the door, there might be a chance''. So he ''jumped up'' right away, cuddled me from behind and we walked like that to the door and kissed. At this point I was a 150% sure he would defo call...So why the hell didn't he? I think I'm missing sth here... There might be a slight chance, that he simple forgot about, that i passed him my number, because when i entered it in his phone, he was all over me and i also didn't remind him on the call when i left... So going with that, i'm thinking about gettin his number... maybe you guys have some insight for me and some advice on the whole issue... i dont wanna start off an relationship...but he made me curious.
heartshaped Posted September 22, 2013 Posted September 22, 2013 Just cause you make out with someone when you're drunk, doesn't mean you want to sleep with them when you're sober. Harsh, but true.
Jordanbro Posted September 22, 2013 Posted September 22, 2013 Well, i'm not so sure about, if its that...The fact that this is already goin on for so long, seems to me that he is actually interested in a little bit more than sex. I would actually never try to come together with a person for such a long period of time, if i wouldnt care it all. I guess the ''solution'' here, is that you being not much around, he just doesn't wanna go for it, like a self protection. Maybe you should make a move, than in my understanding he won't and you actually got nothin to lose here.
Author holly711 Posted September 22, 2013 Author Posted September 22, 2013 thanks to you guys, but wow those are two totally different views on that topic... @heartshaped, i kinda get your point...if it had been a one time story, but tryin it again and again for years... @jordanbro, well...i really dont know...it could be that...would explain it kinda...who would turn down a just sex option...maybe its a bigger issue... any more opinions on that?
Kelly15 Posted September 22, 2013 Posted September 22, 2013 Maybe he was just looking for a hook up that night ,
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