Jupiter901 Posted September 21, 2013 Posted September 21, 2013 Ok be 22 she was 28. We met at work and she fell in love with me very early I liked her a lot and I fell in love with her aswell. She was married but was about to start her divorce. 3 months after we became a couple she goes back to Poland to start her divorce. I visit her in poland she acts strange and says her neighbours are calling her names for seeing me while she's married. My trip over there is not as nice as I thought it would be she is acting very cold. Come home feeling a bit upset. we carry on our long distance relationship she has been in Poland for 2 months and she is coming home in 1 month. We planned to move in together, I still lived with my parents but now I wanted to make plans with her so when she came back we could move straight into somewhere. So I rang her and I talked about sorting a place for us both ready for when she came back. Everything is great I was happy we had made solid plans. We usually talk daily on the phone or Skype. We don't talk the next day or the day after then I know something is wrong and she says she has accepted a good job and is going to stay over there. Something similar had happened once before because of her divorce it was difficult having a husband still wanting to be in the picture seeing as they had a 2 year old child. I didn't think much of it and left it at that. 2 days later I rang her and she had confirmed her decision. Now I knew she was serious and it felt so bad. Never knew a pain as much as this she was my first love and now I knew it was over. At that point I knew her mind was made and that nothing I could do would change her Mind so I didn't try and contact her again. 2 weeks later she texts saying she wanted to meet me in the UK in 2 weeks I agree and say I would like that. 2 weeks later I try and ring her she doesn't answer. I wait for 2 weeks and she hasn't returned my call at the time I had got a new phone and I text her my new number but she never responded. A day doesn't pass when she doesn't enter my mind. It's been 5 months and we haven't spoken at all. Really don't know what is the best thing to do I am lost. Sometimes I think talking to her will clear my head and help me move on. It happened so suddenly and unexpectedly. Should I email her or not I haven't tried any form of contact for 5 Months.
Philosoraptor Posted September 24, 2013 Posted September 24, 2013 Sadly you were seeing a married woman who was in no way ready for a relationship. She used you as a rebound in order to try to get away from her husband, but in the end she decided her family was more important. Stop trying to contact her, it's going to do you no good. In fact, block her in any way possible just in case she tries to use you again if her marriage starts to suck again. 1
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