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I would like to have your, 'YES YOUR' break up stories in chronological order and how it affected you and your r/shps to come.

I would like to point out that I am sure you will learn something new from writing your story and it just gives you a 'good feeling' after that. Source: Personal experience.

 

Stats: 3 major crashes, 0 loves, 0 dumps, 1 unavailability and dumped twice.

Senior HS year

Lasted 6 months, 2 good months and 4 months of miscommunication. Graduation finally came.

-After the hardest BU of my life, I got into the real football(Soccer) so deep that I had to force myself to take a break after 2 years because I was addicted to it and all my fantasies gradually started to be about last nights match or the game to come after 2 days.

-Also made decision to better myself and not get involved for the next 3 years

-With NC, high dose of new hobbies it took me 3 months

 

3rd year university student

Time 0 secs

Planned on asking for her number, but learned that she was in a LDR

- Replaced her with fantasies of unattainable people, I intentionally checked FB of a girl, whom I knew in HS but went abroad for studies, every morning and night(Idk how long) and I actually started missing the FB girl, mind you we never chat or even messaged but it did the trick for me. Helped me get over a crash.

- Was pissed at myself for not keeping my promise of waiting 3 years

-Realized I was very confident with myself and wanted to get out into the 'wild '

 

Summer of the same year

Time 2 mon & 7 days

-I recently had a BU was Aug 28th and I was really messed up in the head for 3 days ( really messed up) couldn't understand why it hurts so much though I didn't want the r/shp and hurt emotionally for about 2 weeks, and I believe I am now back to normal (Sep 21).

- Realized I want to be in love

- I think that I know what type of person I want.

- Reading and NC helped.

- Realized I need to be less invested in pre-mature r/shps

- I have to put more effort on my looks

- I shouldn't try to fix somebody

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I am more interested in your stories than comments in mine,

Promise it will help you.

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