RIGUY Posted November 24, 2004 Posted November 24, 2004 My GF and I broke up two weeks ago today. Our realtionship moved fast and in the beginning it was a whilwind romance. After a few weeks, she told me that I was the one and that we would spend the rest of our lives together. I wholeheartedly believed this too. She gave me keys to her apartment and i spent 5 nights a week at her place. we spent every day together and before long, we were planning a future together MY GF was in a horrible relationship before we met, and she dumped him to go out with me. In retrospect, i know we moved too fast. About a month ago, she told me that she needed space and I agreed. the next day, she called me and told me that she needed me, I was her world, etc and we were back together and in love. Soon enough, I felt her pulling away and again, she told me she needed to break up with me because she really needed her time alone. I agreed, I know she never had time to get over her ex. Upon my leaving, we shared a long kiss and held each other and said goodbye. I sent her a letter a week ago, basically summing up my feelings and telling her that I really wanted this to work. How long should I wait to contact her? Should I call her to wish her happy holidays or just back off and give her the space she needs? Our breakup was not a hostile one and I really want to work it out. Should i casually ask her out to lunch or coffe, or let her call if she wants to come back?
Merin Posted November 24, 2004 Posted November 24, 2004 Well.. since you've already sent her a letter letting her know how you feel about her.. and the break up wasn't "mean" I would just give her some space now.. see what she comes up with. Good Luck
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