Angry bird Posted September 21, 2013 Posted September 21, 2013 I am missing and fantasizing. I know I need to let the hope die, and I thought it would have died by now... 3 months bu and 2 months no contact. We were only involved for 6 months, but we were talking a lot future stuff , which unfortunately I took,to heart. I will say that the pain is none existent at this point, but my heart is still wanting. I think if I was checking social media, then there would still be pain since he broke up with me for someone else, but since I dont check his social media, I don't know how amazing his life is now without me. Seriously, I doubt he even thinks of me. And is super relieved that we are over. Which makes me feel bad, but also helps me let go of hope. This sucks. Anyone 3 month bu, how r you coping 1
JoelBarish Posted September 21, 2013 Posted September 21, 2013 I am missing and fantasizing. I know I need to let the hope die, and I thought it would have died by now... 3 months bu and 2 months no contact. We were only involved for 6 months, but we were talking a lot future stuff , which unfortunately I took,to heart. I will say that the pain is none existent at this point, but my heart is still wanting. I think if I was checking social media, then there would still be pain since he broke up with me for someone else, but since I dont check his social media, I don't know how amazing his life is now without me. Seriously, I doubt he even thinks of me. And is super relieved that we are over. Which makes me feel bad, but also helps me let go of hope. This sucks. Anyone 3 month bu, how r you coping First of all it's okay that you were only together for 6 months. Your break up and your pain is just as valid as anyone else's. You are doing an awesome job staying away from social media. No reason to snoop and start more pain again. And if it helps, I have talked to a few dumpers and they told me that they still thought of their exes on occasion. It would be almost impossible for them not to when you were involved emotionally. However, just because they have those thoughts about us doesn't mean they want us back. Remember that.
SinceYou'veBeenGone Posted September 21, 2013 Posted September 21, 2013 I am missing and fantasizing. I know I need to let the hope die, and I thought it would have died by now... 3 months bu and 2 months no contact. We were only involved for 6 months, but we were talking a lot future stuff , which unfortunately I took,to heart. I will say that the pain is none existent at this point, but my heart is still wanting. I think if I was checking social media, then there would still be pain since he broke up with me for someone else, but since I dont check his social media, I don't know how amazing his life is now without me. Seriously, I doubt he even thinks of me. And is super relieved that we are over. Which makes me feel bad, but also helps me let go of hope. This sucks. Anyone 3 month bu, how r you coping I know just how you feel. I'm struggling with the exact thing. We were also together for about 6 months.
Author Angry bird Posted September 21, 2013 Author Posted September 21, 2013 SYBG, I just read your past posts ((hugs)). Ugh, your first everything, I'm so sorry. It's tough. I had my first at 19, and it took me 4-ever to get over him. Funny enough, he broke it off with me, but because he knew he was my first, he had an attachment to me as well. Wait to you really move on...he will not handle it well. He called me for 10 years straight until he found his wife, lol.
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