xxshoegalxx Posted September 21, 2013 Posted September 21, 2013 (edited) Hi everyone, new to this site and I really need some advice. I recently split with my ex 4 weeks ago. He finished it out of the blue and I dont really know why. We had been together 4 years with a 3 month gap in the middle since the split. We have barely spoke apart from discussing him having his things. What's really getting to me on top of the break up and the no explanation is he has gone out if his way on instagram fb (til last week when he blocked me randomly on it after I didn't reply to a text he sent) and twitter to keep me updated how great his life is. I truly feel from the posts that it's for my benefit yet I really don't understand why he feels the need to keep sticking the knife in, it seems so cruel. I took him off instagram so I couldn't see anything on there because his profile is locked now. He has started doing it on twitter today. When he has not posted on there since before the split yet he knows I go on there a lot. He has not changed the profile picture either its still of both of us. I just feel soo lost and confused Any advice would be great xx Edited September 21, 2013 by a LoveShack.org Moderator added punctuation and paragraphs also removed text speak
TaraMaiden Posted September 21, 2013 Posted September 21, 2013 First piece of advice? Punctuate and paragraph. Second piece of advice? he's patently playing with you. Cut off all means of contact, delete your profile, quit facebook, instagram, twitter, whatever, block him on your 'phone and let him play his little games. Talking to yourself is a sign of madness. Let him be talking to himself... Make sure he goes bananas. 3
KatZee Posted September 21, 2013 Posted September 21, 2013 Plain and simple: he's hurting. His life really ISN'T as great as he's portraying it to be. He wants you to hurt as well. Keep him blocked so you're not part of his emotional games.
Balzac Posted September 21, 2013 Posted September 21, 2013 What possible difference can it make if he gives a reason for dumping you? He's called it over and yet you still communicate with him? What's wrong with your self esteem?
Author xxshoegalxx Posted September 21, 2013 Author Posted September 21, 2013 I dont contact him hes the one who texts me because hes lefy alot of things here thats the only thing that gets discussed. Im ok if he doesn't want to be with me the only one going out of there way to let the other know there great and happy is him I just dont understand why he is bein so mean to me when he finished it I haven't reacted once to any of the things hes said (specifically how great his life is how happy he is great night outs hes had etc)
TaraMaiden Posted September 21, 2013 Posted September 21, 2013 Don't respond. That way, there is no contact. Sorted. Trying to second-guess the actions of someone else - ESPECIALLY an ex - is completely futile, pointless, useless and frankly, takes more of your energy than it's worth. Quit even thinking about him. Then you'll be fine. 1
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