Phinky Posted September 21, 2013 Posted September 21, 2013 (edited) My fiancé of four years started working at Walmart recently. She met some new friends and a week later asked me if she could go hang out after work. I was concerned for her safety, because these were strangers even to her and after work for her is 1 a.m. She kept asking to go to these parties and what not, and I was so happy for her!!! She always had a hard time keeping friends and I always loved to see her hang out with people. Then two weeks after starting work she text me saying he "one of her new friends" gave her an ultimatum. I asked what it was and she said he said me or him. I lol'd. This guy whom my fiancée has only known for about a week or two thinks she'll leave me after four years for him. She replied to my lol with, " I know, I'm going with him." I played it off as her trying to prank me, but when I got home she said her and the guy decided they wanted me out of the picture. I cried for two days straight, and then mad, sad, and mad again. I've always been good to her and her to me. She was my pen pal through basic and a.i.t. and I was there for her during the death of one of her very good friends. Since the breakup I began going over everything we talked about and made some self-realizations about what has been going on. She showed me some bruises on her arms from where he grabbed her. She described one incident as them wrestling because she was choking him, and she described the other as he was drunk and wanted to show her his bedroom. (having absolute faith in her and trust in her word I believed her but now one of two things are obvious.) Either he is abusive or they've had sex. (I've never left a mark on her during sex, but I'm also very gentle with her. I've always been afraid to hurt her.) We did accidentally reproduce a couple of years ago, and our son is almost two. I know she is going to come back, and I want nothing more than for my son to grow up in a good loving and united family. I know I want the girl I had a month ago too. I know she will come back within the next two years. I'm thinking most likely a couple of months or less even. This guy isn't after anything serious and I've always been good to her. We also have a son together. But I feel like an idiot for wanting her back. There is more to this story about how she lied and deceived me int the last weeks in some of the most conniving ways, but I like to think of her as honest even now. It has been a week and I've been no contact for most of it. Her parents whom are very upset with her watch our son while she works. I go over during these times to see him. Edited September 21, 2013 by Phinky
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