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How do i cope with getting used and dumped by my first love?


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Background;;;; im 18 he's 19 and we were each others first, atleast i believed i was. 2 year on and off relationship.

At first everything was fine he was perfect and i was a complete B****.

I would kick him out yell at him and everything i even cheated on him once and he took me back. He then threw and ultimatum at about a year which completely changed me. I am no the one who is being pushed around. I love him soo much but it seems he doesnt give a s*** about me. He doesnt try anymore. He resolves our problems by hanging up and turning off his phone. There are soo many trust issues. I moved out of state my senior year in highschool because of this. I feel to attatched maybe because while my parents divorced he was there to pick me up from anything litteraly he would act like my mom dad and bestfriend. he was like a guardian to me. and after i changed and became more soft he started treating me like poop. He will lie and i just want to get over him or fix things. Idk what to do all i am currently doing is crying my eyes out asking myself why he doesnt care calling him non stop.....

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The only way to get over this is to take some time alone to focus on yourself.

Go no contact. Give him his space and in time you will both grow.

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