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Well, oook here goes

 

i'm 17... about a week ago i drove do my buddys house and as soon as i got there i saw this girl he knew eaving in disappointment. I later found out that they did go out for a period of time but she was tired of the way he was treating her... she says she felt ditched. Well recently my friend was telling me that he doesnt want a relationship bla bla bla and he said he wouldnt care if i asked her out. Well the thing is recently my buddy and the girl have been on bad terms... he lied to her about doing many different drugs and that hurt her. So because of this she cut him out of her life but she has no problems with me, we still talk. Well me still liking her i thought it would be stupid to ask her out right away seeing hows shes still depressed and hurt by my buddy. So i waited a day or so and then the worst happened..... she was on MSN with her friend one night and she said that her friend liked me... but the thin is im not interested in her friend im interested in HER. Now I know she'd never go out with me now because if she did her friend would probably be pretty pissed at her. Does anyone think that my chances with the first girl (not her friend) are gone???? If not what can I do?

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assoon as your buddy started dating her your chances were toast! unless you are not a good friend...

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If she did like you at all.....she would never had mentioned her friend liking you.

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Yes sir your chances with girl #1 are gone becaue of these reasons:

 

1) Girl #1 likes your buddy even though he treats her like shyt

2) Girl #1 tried to hook you up with girl #2 which means girl #1 is not interested in you

 

Also, if you try to hook up with girl #1 it will get back to your buddy and you will be the ultimate loser in this "love triangle".

 

My advice is for you to try to find another girl #1.

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Well it sort of worked out differently.... my buddy actually asked me if i liked her and that he didnt care if i went out wit her. But now she realizes shes bein treated like **** and she hasent talked to him for a while, shes says its done with... And another thing im confused about..... I met her twice in person and shes askin me what i want for xmas....it just seems weird she'd get me a gift when shes seen me twice in person and a good portion of the time on msn.

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