awsgirl Posted September 21, 2013 Posted September 21, 2013 I really need some advice. I was with my boyfriend for 3 years, and I thought I was going to marry him. I broke up with him & I had my reasons. It has been a little over a year since the break-up, and I am no longer angry with him. I am just very sad, because I miss him A LOT. I realize now that there was a lot that we could have done to save our relationship, and I can't stop myself from thinking about all the mistakes that I made in the relationship. I think that if I wouldn't have made those mistakes, we would have got through the rough times. If he only knew how much I have improved in my personal growth this past year, if I could only get him to understand. It's not like I have not tried moving on. I have been on dates, have dated a few people. But nothing serious. I have gone to therapy to try to work through my feelings and find peace, but I am still hurting. I pray every night. I get together with friends and family as much as I can. I just don't know what else I can do anymore. We keep in touch every now and then and we are civil. I either want to talk to him but I don't even know what I would say...or I don't want to remember or think of him anymore because it hurts too much. But I think about him all the time naturally. If you have any advice, please let me know.
headinthecloud Posted September 21, 2013 Posted September 21, 2013 There's a lot of 'I's in your post which says you're not thinking of him and how he is doing. Seems to me like you have some more work to do on yourself.
Salvatore85 Posted September 21, 2013 Posted September 21, 2013 You dumped him and I bet you he was hurting like hell for quite some time. My advice is to leave him alone and don't do what you're going to do and that's contact him to work things out. It's just going to open up old wounds for him and that's not fair at all.
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