jenn78 Posted September 21, 2013 Posted September 21, 2013 so my ex and i had a huge relapse the other day. We hadn't talked for over a month then we ran into eachother out one night and sat outside the bar talking until the early morning after everyone went home. We both went home to our respective houses. The next day at a mutual friends event we spent the entire day together then left had dinner and went to my house and you know the drill... we talked and cried and cuddled until the early afternoon the next day. I left and we have texting all week, discussing our break up (he dumped me because he didnt like that i wasn't super outgoing with his friends and he wants to travel and feels he can't do that in a relationship). Its been 4 months since we broke up and he said he can't believe how much he isn't over me and how much he misses me. We aren't getting back together. But I am at a lost of what I should do. We have tentative plans to hangout but we are both letting our emotions settle over the next few days. I feel the safest thing to do for myself is to go back to no contact because right now I am giving him what he wants... me in a his life without a relationship. He feels bad and thinks he is leading me on which in a way he is. I want advice from anyone who has been in this situation before?
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