Simon Phoenix Posted September 21, 2013 Posted September 21, 2013 I tend to attract the athletic, jocky-type, somewhat alpha women. I'm not a jock per se, but I'm well-versed in sports and tend to be pretty blunt and funny in a direct way, which I guess attracts this type of girl. Who knows, but I rarely have success with your typical "girly-girl". I think the last time I had a girl like that interested in me was in high school when I was far less assertive.
BradJacobs Posted September 21, 2013 Posted September 21, 2013 Are they similar to you in any way? Are they complete opposite of you? Mostly polar opposites. I attract a lot of conventional, shy women where I am anything but those two things.
thefooloftheyear Posted September 21, 2013 Posted September 21, 2013 Despite the fact that I consider myself an accomplished, worldly, intelligent, witty, financially secure guy, I seem to attract broke, middle aged J-Woww wannabe types with bad boob jobs, bad hair, DUI convictions, shyty credit, etc.. The only thing I can think of is the fact that I have a muscular body and some tattoos...*shrug*....Maye I need a pair of geek glasses or some shyt.?? TFY
TheGuard13 Posted September 21, 2013 Posted September 21, 2013 By "attract", do we mean women who express interest in us, or women who like us, period? Because I click with pretty much all types, but I attract crazy, uber talented women simply due to my theatrical hobbies and artistic interests. 1
esteem-jam Posted September 21, 2013 Posted September 21, 2013 For me it would me easier to answer to whom I am attracted to, honestly.
Red Wolverine Posted September 21, 2013 Posted September 21, 2013 I attract different types of men. I'm confident, brutally yet tactfully honest, and successful in my career. I get the egomaniacs who want to conquer me since I'm a challenge. The ones I consider are similar to me and appreciate my independence and success without being intimidated. I won't consider a man without children. Too much life experience wrapped up in being a parent and I think boundaries would be difficult to manage.
Moe'sTavern Posted September 21, 2013 Posted September 21, 2013 I don't really attract anyone. It is what it is.
RedRobin Posted September 21, 2013 Posted September 21, 2013 Who do I attract? It's all over the map. I believe the pool is more affected by local demographic and age group than individual qualities. ... I don't have a gym membership. Thinking about getting one after ES's post. 2
ASG Posted September 22, 2013 Posted September 22, 2013 In short? Married men! Honestly, sometimes I think there's something written on my forehead! I mostly attract white men. Often older than me by a FEW years. And due to the circles I move in, they tend to be artistic/technical in life. Actors and musicians are a constant in my dating life. (which sucks, BTW. Flaky people!) Very rarely do I attract the jock type or even the big business professional, but I guess that is also more due to lack of opportunity, due to not meeting many of them!
bentleychic Posted September 22, 2013 Posted September 22, 2013 Creepers and stalkers. That's the only thing that I can say mine have had in common. LOL I have no idea why nor how to stop it. The majority were complete strangers to me before they became creepers and stalkers, too. Go figure!
thefooloftheyear Posted September 22, 2013 Posted September 22, 2013 (edited) You attract what you are on the inside. Sorry. No apology necessary....I guess you still sting from an old comment I made:lmao:..Was that like 6 months ago? Deal with it darling, or take it up with your therapist. Like you, I am a nameless, faceless person on the internet...Just let it go, sweety..K? Im not perfect and I have made mistakes, but I am a good man, an accomplished and respected busiinessman in the community and most of all an awesome dad. I have a great circle of friends and a terrific family...Frankly, I couldnt care less if I never find anyone, Im content within myself...Im not even looking at this point...Ill raise my daughter and let fate determine my future..Im not worried. I have all the from my kid to carry me for now. I wish you well TFY Edited September 22, 2013 by thefooloftheyear
Author MrCastle Posted September 22, 2013 Author Posted September 22, 2013 Right now, men who are taken. Oh, wow. Yeah. How in the f*ck did I forget this one? Older married women, younger married women, chicks with boyfriends -- they seem to love themselves some Castle and I can never do anything with any of them. Lame sh*t 1
ltjg45 Posted September 22, 2013 Posted September 22, 2013 Apparently, the drama-filled people. I'm trying to get away from the chaos and I end up meeting people who brings nothing but chaos.
waiting4u Posted September 22, 2013 Posted September 22, 2013 Apparently, the drama-filled people. I'm trying to get away from the chaos and I end up meeting people who brings nothing but chaos. You might take a look at your own contribution to this trend.
Bigcitydreamer Posted September 22, 2013 Posted September 22, 2013 (edited) I attract chauvinistic momma's boys for some reason. I also noticed that every boyfriend I have ever had has a sister! I don't know why. Maybe it takes having a sister to appreciate the kind of girl I am? Lol who knows. Maybe it's the way I put myself out there. I'm attracted to intelligent guys, but am too nervous and shy to be myself around them. I am pretty modern in my beliefs but all of my boyfriends have seemed to want a motherly figure, someone to take care of them rather than be a partner. It's the opposite of who I am, so its always an area of frustration for me. Edited September 22, 2013 by Bigcitydreamer
MissBee Posted September 23, 2013 Posted September 23, 2013 At one point it was very apparent that I attracted unavailable men, not so much anymore, but it was a pattern: they had gfs/wives, distance, emotionally unavailable, you name it.
dichotomy Posted September 23, 2013 Posted September 23, 2013 (edited) East coast girls - and particularly NY. Sheesh - what’s with them and a nice Midwestern boy like me? They ruined me. I was working regularly in the Cambridge (MA) area last year - and I was getting the eye and comments. Edited September 23, 2013 by dichotomy
ltjg45 Posted September 24, 2013 Posted September 24, 2013 You might take a look at your own contribution to this trend. Which is the hard part since what I do best is avoid people. My connections with people is relatively low when compared to others. Even then, the few that I do talk to is the kind that ended up being the ones that I have no business trusting with anything and I'm like, "Why the hell do these people want to talk to me anyway?" On the outside, I have no desire to approach or speak to them.
hotpotato Posted September 24, 2013 Posted September 24, 2013 Oh yes, a disproportionately high number of redheads. I'm not complaining.
mesmerized Posted September 24, 2013 Posted September 24, 2013 hmmm, I don't think I only attract a certain type of people. But among cultures and races there seem to be a pattern. For example I don't seem to attract Asian men, black and latino men seem to really like me and with white men it's a hit or miss. As far as the personality of men I attract, I attract a lot of crazy psychos, but also nerds and some nice people in between.
love1336x Posted September 26, 2013 Posted September 26, 2013 Hmm I seem to attract men who are broke, or who haven't completely let go of their exes.
Bubberfly Posted September 26, 2013 Posted September 26, 2013 I'm tall but chubby. I have brown curly hair, I have big eyes but they're behind geeky glasses. I tend to attract people who look JUST like me. But with a penis Hahahahahaha Oh, and really tiny Asian girls wearing super high heels. Hmmmmmm.
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