Fineshrine Posted September 20, 2013 Posted September 20, 2013 Ok so here's the scenario. I've been seeing this girl for four months now. For most of these four months everything's been great, seeing each other two to three times a week, met her family, friends, texting every day we don't see each other as well as phoning occasionally. But for the last couple of weeks something has seemed a little off. She's just got a new job and the hours are pretty crazy, like 7am to 10pm (with a three hour break in the middle) three days of the week, 7am til 4pm another day plus sleepover as well (care work). In the last two weeks, I've found my texts are not getting response for like three or four days if at all, we've made no plans to see each other this week because of commitments which is a first. We saw each other on Sunday and everything seemed great. Cuddling, joking, play fighting, sex and she clung to me all night while she slept. But then I told her in the morning I wouldn't be free this weekend due to prior engagements (that I would love to have gotten out of but couldn't) but I would keep Thursday and Friday free if she wanted to do something, no pressure but I won't make plans in case. She said she'd let me know on her lunch. Still haven't heard... Although we have texted a bit since. Also, just before meeting on Sunday (we arranged it pretty much a few hours before) she text me saying she knows it's a long trip to her place (about 2 1/2 hours - I'd travel that for 2 mins with her) and the weather is disgusting and she would understand if I didn't want to come...what the heck does that mean? I rang her immediately and asked her if she actually wanted me to come and she said of course she did. So I did. But now I'm really questioning whether she was looking for reassurance as one friend said or whether she was hoping I would say 'yeah actually I can't be bothered...' So I guess what I would like opinions on is am I overreacting or does it sound like she is losing interest? Or maybe I don't fit into her life at this moment? Do I need to give her space while she adjusts to her new job or do I contact her more to show that I'm not losing interest because she doesn't contact me as much. Or do I go all out and tell her I'm crazy about her and need to be in touch a little bit more? I'm not a clingy person and I need my own space but I feel like I need to hear from her a little more than I do currently. Jeez reading this back I sound really paranoid which isn't me. I guess I just like this girl... A lot... Any advice would be really appreciated! Thanks!
BlockStunna Posted September 20, 2013 Posted September 20, 2013 I feel you on a 100& on this one, i'm in the exact same position and i'm neither like this usually.. ****'s crazy man!
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