BlockStunna Posted September 20, 2013 Posted September 20, 2013 Alright, so i've been talking to this girl for 3 months now and we started out texting. We're texting eachother everyday still to this day. After2 months of texting she really wanted to see me, i went to see her and we had an amazing time.. after that that we've seen eactother atleast 2-4 times a week.. We've been to cinema and the amusement park as well this week, but she is starting to confuse me, when i'm with her i feel that she show all signs that she like. She bump into me, hold her arm around mine sometimes, she put head on my shoulder and all that. Also if i don't text her first in the morning she'll always do it and ask me how i am what i'm up to etc etc.. but what's really confusing me and what made that i haven't made the move yet that sometimes when we're texting for example she can say things like. Me - How are you? Her- I'm all good bro, how are you ? Far from all the time, but at points she calls me, buddy or bro and im maybe just so crazy about this girl that im getting paranoid to lose her. Also i really never did let her know how i feel about her, i really do love and i try to show that as much as possible without going in too hard since i'm scared to lose her.. Is it time for me to let her know ? We're both 19. Any help is appreciated, if i forgot something let me know Thanks in advance.
farva2 Posted September 21, 2013 Posted September 21, 2013 time to make a move soldier, next time you two are all touchy touchy then ramp things up
Syconort Posted September 21, 2013 Posted September 21, 2013 Instead of focusing on losing her, focus on losing the fear. Accept this depressingly accurate prediction: even if you marry this girl that you've known for 3 months, it will very likely end in divorce. The point is, you're 19, she is not the one and only. Enjoy your time together, enjoy your time apart. Fear of losing her will drive her away! It leads to pussyfooting around issues, not being yourself, clinging onto her, all kinds of negative behaviour. And yes, as farva2 says, escalate! Learn how to give a good massage! That's a great way to get intimate with a girl very slowly and sensually. If she doesn't have her hands all over you after 20 minutes she isn't interested.
Author BlockStunna Posted September 21, 2013 Author Posted September 21, 2013 time to make a move soldier, next time you two are all touchy touchy then ramp things up Yeah i'm sure you're right! I need to let her know quick somehow
Copelandsanity Posted September 21, 2013 Posted September 21, 2013 Tell her you think she's attractive in your own way. Touch her. Kiss her. Do all of the above as quickly as humanly possible. You'll have your answer.
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