secret admirer Posted September 20, 2013 Posted September 20, 2013 (edited) I broke up my 3 year relationship two days ago who was my and her first. I did it because she got kissed by another guy. We were in a very long distance relationship and I thought there was more to the event, but now I realize that she didn't mean it at all. She had nothing to hide and told me everything she did with the other guy... Nothing. The guy misinterpreted her, and I feel so lonely now. I regret it all. I asked her to stop seeing him and she did. She started texting me a lot and wanting to call me and keep this relationship, but I ended it. She still means so much to me and it's hard to cope. Is this normal? I want her back, but I think I drew the line, and there is no going back. Edited September 20, 2013 by secret admirer Sounded weird
Balzac Posted September 20, 2013 Posted September 20, 2013 Reach down - feel for your balls. Still there? Move on. 2
nerdlingZA Posted September 20, 2013 Posted September 20, 2013 II did it because she got kissed by another guy. this I called cheating , tell her to ****** *OFF* when she contacts 1
emi Posted September 20, 2013 Posted September 20, 2013 If its just accident, or that guy did it on him own and she didnt even expect it then you should give her a chance If she did it on her will, then just move along
harrybrown Posted September 20, 2013 Posted September 20, 2013 She may have more than kissed him. Did she tell you why she chose to "kiss" him?
PR08 Posted September 20, 2013 Posted September 20, 2013 Reach down - feel for your balls. Still there? Move on. God, I wish I could like this a thousand times. Why do 'men' do this to themselves? 1
mtnbiker3000 Posted September 20, 2013 Posted September 20, 2013 Oh, I see. There was an earthquake, and as the room was shaking, they were thrust into each other and their lips just happened to press together. Happens all the time. No worries. She didn't mean it... 10
Author secret admirer Posted September 21, 2013 Author Posted September 21, 2013 I know. I'm just confused and don't know how to cope with this. My mind is all over the place. I'm full of pity and need to move on, but I have no one to vent out to.
Author secret admirer Posted September 21, 2013 Author Posted September 21, 2013 No, but can I really find that out now? It's a lost cause in my eyes. If she doesn't want to tell me the truth now, she wont tell me the whole story ever.
sniperz Posted September 21, 2013 Posted September 21, 2013 I broke up my 3 year relationship two days ago who was my and her first. I did it because she got kissed by another guy. We were in a very long distance relationship and I thought there was more to the event, but now I realize that she didn't mean it at all. She had nothing to hide and told me everything she did with the other guy... Nothing. The guy misinterpreted her, and I feel so lonely now. I regret it all. I asked her to stop seeing him and she did. She started texting me a lot and wanting to call me and keep this relationship, but I ended it. She still means so much to me and it's hard to cope. Is this normal? I want her back, but I think I drew the line, and there is no going back. Move on. She could have just said it was just a kiss... What if? You know slept together and stuffs or crap? Find someone. Let her remorse she did something wrong. You weren't wrong much at first right? Then you deserved the order to find others!
Omei Posted September 21, 2013 Posted September 21, 2013 So many people here are telling you to move on so many people are so quick to want you to throw away 3 years :-S Listen if you love this girl, have trust with this girl, if she was honest that has to count for something dont be so quick to give up on someone because they made a mistake work it out unless she's slept with him and lied about it you should give her a shot at forgiveness, and she should be willing to do what it takes to get it.
hurts2death Posted September 21, 2013 Posted September 21, 2013 kissed someone? wow secret admirer that means she is either irresponsible and if she did it at 3 years she will have sex in the next years.... end it run away wish you heal... -john
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