Justletgo Posted September 20, 2013 Posted September 20, 2013 So I was in the supermarket shopping around, the next moment I sort of bump into my exGF. She said "you're allowed to talk to me you know" with a BIG frown on her face, I guess implying that I was being weird. I said "Heey". But then thought to myself, why would I have to talk to her, after she ignored me for so long. There is nothing to say. So I said "no, I don't think that's necessary", and walk on. After which she says " okkk" and walks off with a big frown on her face. I think it's really odd that she suddenly has the guts to approach me like that. Considering she has always been ignoring me. What the hell was she thinking?
Mr Scorpio Posted September 20, 2013 Posted September 20, 2013 It is hard to say without knowing your backstory. There are several possibilties: 1) she misses your friendship, 2) she misses the attention, 3) she feels bad about how things ended, 4) she legit "bumped into you".
Author Justletgo Posted September 20, 2013 Author Posted September 20, 2013 Backstory: Firsts of each other, almost 5 year relationship. I had to break up with her because she wanted to go for a drink with a strange man around christmas last year. Whom she I think entered a (secret) relationship with. Wanted her back, she didn't. Ignored me ever since the breakup, I was a dumbass and messaged her like every month until May until I finally gave up (still have). Funny thing is I bumped into her mum like a week ago and we didn't say anything (cause I know there's a big chance the lot of them might STILL ignore me when I initiate, I just don't need the drama).
StrongLass Posted September 20, 2013 Posted September 20, 2013 What the hell was she thinking? Does it matter? That's the REAL question here. 1
Author Justletgo Posted September 20, 2013 Author Posted September 20, 2013 Well, I would just like to know why she wanted to talk to me. Because I still have feelings I guess. And am asking opinions on a forum. So if anyone has had a similair experience or some insight to the situation it would be nice to hear from you!
JoelBarish Posted September 20, 2013 Posted September 20, 2013 To me it sounds like she only wanted to talk you because she happened to run into you and was trying to be polite. I doubt she wanted to talk about anything you were hoping she would.
emi Posted September 20, 2013 Posted September 20, 2013 ok imma give you an opinion base on a 100% view of a girl She expected you to treated her better since you said you text her after the BU and want her back, then when she saw you, you didnt act on any of it its a big shock ya. You just crush her ego
Author Justletgo Posted September 20, 2013 Author Posted September 20, 2013 So is that more or less attractive to a girl?
StrongLass Posted September 21, 2013 Posted September 21, 2013 So is that more or less attractive to a girl? Are you kidding? She's probably VERY unhappy about it. Nobody likes getting their ego stepped on when they were hoping for more of a reaction.
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