TLazer Posted September 20, 2013 Posted September 20, 2013 Back in 2005 (just graduating high school), I met an amazing person... I guess we will call her 'A'. She was stunning, intelligent and most importantly a perfect soul mate I guess you could say. We spent the better half of 3 years together extremely happy with each other. Rarely... actually no, we never fought because we were both intellectual enough to talk out our problems with one another and just fix what ever was bothering us. My Junior year in college, I for some reason was really upset that I had not been able to go out and have the same type of fun all my friends were having (and by that I mean sleeping with all the co-eds that attended school with me). Spontaneously, I decided that it might just be smarter that her and I went our separate ways. It didn't end well but I did what I thought was required for my life at the time. Over the next year, I had a blast and got to be the playboy that I wanted soooo badly to be. But then I graduated... and all these feelings started to overwhelm me. To this day, I cant stop thinking about her and cant move on. I saw her briefly for a day about a year after the break up and we had an amazing time. We started talking again and it was like we had not changed a bit. The following day, she sent me an e-mail that said she just couldn't be with me again... no explanation provided. She blocked my number and e-mail and disappeared from what almost seems existence. I really am having problems to this day because the more I think of her, the more I know we belong together. I figured after all this time, maybe I would get some peoples input and talk about it... maybe it will help me move on by talking about it...
emva07 Posted September 20, 2013 Posted September 20, 2013 My two best friends went through this. They dated all senior year , and freshman hear of college he told her he wanted to do the single college guy thing. To this day ( 8yrs later ) they are only friends. That was the only arrangement she accepted. It's tough , the reason you left her is a valid one and one that all people should get out of their system before they settle down. On the other hand , she was really hurt by it.
Author TLazer Posted September 20, 2013 Author Posted September 20, 2013 My two best friends went through this. They dated all senior year , and freshman hear of college he told her he wanted to do the single college guy thing. To this day ( 8yrs later ) they are only friends. That was the only arrangement she accepted. It's tough , the reason you left her is a valid one and one that all people should get out of their system before they settle down. On the other hand , she was really hurt by it. I feel like maybe we were just together at the wrong time in our lives.... I still don't want to give up on being with her though. The only problem is that I have no way of making contact with her...
emva07 Posted September 20, 2013 Posted September 20, 2013 Thing is my guy friend thought it was the wrong toe in their lives then. Now it's her. She has made it very clear to him and all of us that she enjoys dating around and doesn't see herself settling anytime soon. She respected you then. You should respect her now.
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