AnyaNova Posted September 20, 2013 Posted September 20, 2013 How many of you have scanned these forums a little bit to see if you see any sign of your ex posting, particularly perhaps, in the second chances forum? Or am I the only one...
RiceaRoni Posted September 20, 2013 Posted September 20, 2013 Nope. I never have. This is the only place I come to, to not even think of him. It helps me take my mind off of him.
Chris715 Posted September 20, 2013 Posted September 20, 2013 I've definitely thought "wow, it would be really weird if she was on here" but I doubt it so much that I've never even bothered to check.
Keenly Posted September 20, 2013 Posted September 20, 2013 There have been threads that I have only read because they sound close to the mirror of my past situations. Haven't gotten that lucky though.
JoelBarish Posted September 20, 2013 Posted September 20, 2013 Sometimes when I start reading a post I get a funny notion that it might be her....until the details make it obvious that it couldn't be her. Just wishful thinking I guess...wishing she missed me enough to need this forum.
mtnbiker3000 Posted September 20, 2013 Posted September 20, 2013 99% of the time, it doesn't work that way. Dumpers rarely want a second chance. Only if it was a rash, spur of the moment decision that they now regret. Majority of the time, they know exactly what they've done and have only a very slight or no problem sticking with their initial decision... 4
Author AnyaNova Posted September 21, 2013 Author Posted September 21, 2013 I know. My own situation was convoluted to say the least. But you guys are all right. the likelihood that he is posting on here is very slim indeed. And even if he did, I know he is privacy conscious enough that he is not going to jump up and down, wave his hands, and say "hi, its me." I would almost bet you that he might conceal a few details or even outright change them to preserve his anonymity. I just wondered if I were the only one. So often, I am so good at predicting situations, and controlling my own responses to them, that I am rarely surprised or thrown off guard. So when I am, my brain seems to have many mechanisms with which to try to deny the reality in front of me and assert that I really wasn't wrong. I'm so bad at being wrong. :-p
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