Phantom888 Posted September 19, 2013 Posted September 19, 2013 This is an update. Just want to spread some positive energy and some encouragement. I met my woman on Match, and we will be celebrating our 4 months this weekend in Santa Barbara. Everything has been really great since the last time I posted. I reflected on my anxieties, and decided to go to therapy to talk things out. My childhood and past relationships have much to do with my insecurities, so I am taking steps in improving myself so that I can be a good partner in this relationship. My woman and I have been communicating openly the whole time, and I am feeling better about our future every day. We introduced our kids recently, and now they are inseparable. They want to spend every weekend together, and we have been doing just that. We are feeling like a family, and we couldn't be happier. She and I see each other 3 nights a week, plus every other weekend. Our sex life from the beginning was AMAZING, but now it has gotten even BETTER! With emotional trust and familiarity, we have become even more intimate in the bedroom. I am having the best sex of my entire life, and I am truly grateful. Her parents are coming into town next month to visit. One of their objectives is to meet me. I am nervous, but glad that we are going that direction. We are moving at a pace we are both comfortable with. No forcing...no rushing. We are very in sync about what we want in life. I am likely to propose to her during Christmas time. I want to spend the rest of my life with her. So if all goes well, Match will have another success story. OLD has its ups and downs, but when it's good, it's phenomenal! I have never been happier. 6
MsOptimist Posted September 20, 2013 Posted September 20, 2013 (edited) Good for you! I'm glad to read of another OLD success story. My best friend married the person she met from OLD, they've now been married over a year and couldn't be happier. She is late thirties and he is early forties, neither had been married before. I'm only ~2.5 months into my new relationship, but it's also from OLD, and we couldn't be happier. I feel it's a healthy start to a relationship and we are so emotionally and physically compatible. Same as you described about the best sex of our lives too, even the first time we were together was amazing We see each other 2-3 times per week and talk on the phone daily. Momentum has built up since the beginning and it keeps getting stronger. We still have a lot of firsts to do eventually - I haven't met his kids yet, but we are talking about it. We are also talking about meeting the families and making plans for the upcoming months. It is kind of fast, but as you said, we are going at a pace that we're comfortable with and we discuss it all the time. Cheers! Edited September 20, 2013 by MsOptimist 1
mammasita Posted September 20, 2013 Posted September 20, 2013 I'm happy to read this. There are sooooooo many skeptics out there about on line dating, but I say anything is possible 1
Leigh 87 Posted September 20, 2013 Posted September 20, 2013 Congrats man, you two honestly sound blissfully happy. I also met my ex online and lasted nearly 3 years. He is still a huge fixture in my life and we have nothing but love for one another. I also met great guys online; one recent guy who did not work out but I seriously liked. I have had nothing bad good experiences online, but I am sure you had a few nut cases! Bet you were happy to meet your current woman:lmao: 1
clia Posted September 20, 2013 Posted September 20, 2013 Very happy for you! I'm also really glad to hear you are dealing with your insecurity issues. 1
truth_seeker Posted September 20, 2013 Posted September 20, 2013 This is a great. It's nice to read about something positive. I wish you continued success and happiness. 1
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