ImSwiss Posted September 19, 2013 Posted September 19, 2013 Hello, after reading tons of pages with advices on how to get over my ex i found this page so i could share my story and listen to some advices, since i don't know what to do.. Well i've been dating a girl for 3 months, it was perfect, we were in love, the only problem was that her mother never let her go out very often, it was impossible for us to go out on weekends or maybe stay together after class, but at that time we didnt care a lot because we were at the university and we saw each other almost everyday, the problem started when we had our summer break from classes, for 1 month i only saw her 1 day, she always told me that she couldn't do anything because her mother is like that, and has always been like that her entire life, we almost fight everyday because of that, i mean, i got tired of not been able to see my GF, things were not like before, we couldn't have sex either because she told me that she wanted to wait till marriage, i got mad at that but i had to deal with it in order to avoid a fight and stay with her, i was always cute with her, but after so much fighting she said that i needed a better person, that i can't be happy with her because of her life, she can't make me happy, and it's better if she stays alone, she even told me to go out and meet other girls and be happy, i was like the 5th time she said that, but i was tired of hearing that so i let her go, i got destroyed because she dumped me.. she said we can be friends if i wanted, after 2 days i text her, saying that im going to her house so we can talk better, that i love her and i wont let her go, and whats my surprise ? she ignore me, she never texted back, i kept writing and she never answered me, what does it mean ? she said that she will wait all the time just to read an Hello from me.. i texted her and she ignores me WTF ? i writed a goodbye message saying that she will never know anything else about me and never reply. its been 1 week since that, it still hurts, and i can't stop thinking about her, i don't know what to do, and the worst part is that next week i start classes and im going to see her, what should i do ? please help guys, and im really sorry for my grammar, english is not my main language.
cif Posted September 19, 2013 Posted September 19, 2013 Continue with the no contact. And in the future when someone tells you something listen instead of trying to make the situation into what you want. She was upfront with you about her lifestyle. Leave her alone.
Ireallydontknow Posted September 19, 2013 Posted September 19, 2013 Go NC you won't have long till you are healed. 3 months? Come on you got this.
Author ImSwiss Posted September 20, 2013 Author Posted September 20, 2013 Thanks for your answers, everyday im feeling better, it's been like 10 days no contact, but there's one thing in my mind, when we finally see each other in class, that's the real test, i don't know what to do when the moment comes, should i just ignore her or what ? any suggestion is highly appreciated.
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