malin819 Posted September 19, 2013 Posted September 19, 2013 I have learned another life experience today...never set your expections too high my friends. My ex called me last Friday after an interview she had for a job that I helped her with months ago. We chatted for 10 minutes about it and then I had to leave for a meeting. The next day she texted me asking me what I was doing and invited me over. I slept at her place and nothing happened. The next day she invited me to a baby shower for a member of her family. I slept there once again and we had sex for most of the night. She told me she loved me and had feelings for me. I said the same things. She asked me if I dated anyone else and I was honest but I didn't slept around. She wanted to see pictures of them and bla bla bla. Then till this morning, I thought we were back together. Calling me hunny and baby. Saying I love you. I texted her this morning asking what we were and she just replied friends! I told her that I thought this friendship was a little pushed and it seemed more like a relationship. So here I am back at square one...no clue what to do with a bunch of emotions inside me! I want to disapear for good this time...
hurts2death Posted September 19, 2013 Posted September 19, 2013 tha t looks like THE gigs... chin up.. dont hurry for conclusions// stay nc and wait for her to show interest in you ... -john
Author malin819 Posted September 19, 2013 Author Posted September 19, 2013 if you read my previous threads you'll see she did the same thing a month ago. I'm reliving the same **** all over again and was naive to believe her. She shows interest (saying I love you)...what kind of interest should I be looking for then??? I thought she changed but nope! I was used once again...she'll never be happy since she doesn't know what she wants out of life. I feel stupid for falling in the same trap!
Ireallydontknow Posted September 19, 2013 Posted September 19, 2013 Yeah that'll happen. Shes just filling the time in till she find the "next best thing." It happened to me and it lasted almost a year! So don't feel too bad, get's us all sometime. It's such a surge of emotions like "OMG she loves ME again! <3333" They throw the word around like it has no meaning or value, disgusting. 1
Author malin819 Posted September 19, 2013 Author Posted September 19, 2013 Yeah that'll happen. Shes just filling the time in till she find the "next best thing." It happened to me and it lasted almost a year! So don't feel too bad, get's us all sometime. It's such a surge of emotions like "OMG she loves ME again! <3333" They throw the word around like it has no meaning or value, disgusting. the next best things was in front of her for the whole week 1
hurts2death Posted September 19, 2013 Posted September 19, 2013 why you keep spending power for a person percieving humans as products? square logic...... romance relationships are the exact oposite of that.... run away my friend and trust me you losses are 0 the next guy will be a product too.....lol go away seriously.. find a girl with ethics....morals////soul..... -john 1
Author malin819 Posted September 19, 2013 Author Posted September 19, 2013 why you keep spending power for a person percieving humans as products? square logic...... romance relationships are the exact oposite of that.... run away my friend and trust me you losses are 0 the next guy will be a product too.....lol go away seriously.. find a girl with ethics....morals////soul..... -john They exist? Thats like seeing a UFO!!!
hurts2death Posted September 19, 2013 Posted September 19, 2013 they exist my friend.... but because the society evolves to this unhealthy state they are less and hard to find... solid advice... before you let your self in in the next relationship 1)try to be friends 2)see if the girl is ok at where she is or she might dump the relationship for worthless gigs 3)eastern civiliazation advice : try to find a girl that is reticent and dont do blowjobs like they are cups of coffees.. find one with morals ethics ... not one that had sex with a dozen.... and if possible a virgin. 4) find one beautifull afterall these genes will make your kids.. 5)have sex in the relationship after months take it super slow 6)give her time and space without her asking but always be a supporter 7)finding a virgin is hard in the society we developed so 99% you will end up with a girl experienced in relationships reading cosmopolitans going with sex flow of the time and having low emotional iq percieving people as comodities . when this happens proceed with caution. be your self and not appear rich but mainstream and again take it slow .when you get dupmed log in to talk.... i would like to keep mysleft searching for ufos though -john 2
Author malin819 Posted September 19, 2013 Author Posted September 19, 2013 oh trust I never had sex with any of my 3 girlfriends before 1-2 months at least. I was raised a certain and I didn't have many partners. Its hard being friend when the girl are pushing for sexual stuff and when you tell them that you take things slowly....they blow up!!! Something is wrong with me bla bla bla 1
hurts2death Posted September 19, 2013 Posted September 19, 2013 no its not wrong , you are qualified with values... maybe you should move to better circles oh trust I never had sex with any of my 3 girlfriends before 1-2 months at least. I was raised a certain and I didn't have many partners. Its hard being friend when the girl are pushing for sexual stuff and when you tell them that you take things slowly....they blow up!!! Something is wrong with me bla bla bla
lauri Posted September 19, 2013 Posted September 19, 2013 they exist my friend.... but because the society evolves to this unhealthy state they are less and hard to find... solid advice... before you let your self in in the next relationship 1)try to be friends 2)see if the girl is ok at where she is or she might dump the relationship for worthless gigs 3)eastern civiliazation advice : try to find a girl that is reticent and dont do blowjobs like they are cups of coffees.. find one with morals ethics ... not one that had sex with a dozen.... and if possible a virgin. 4) find one beautifull afterall these genes will make your kids.. 5)have sex in the relationship after months take it super slow 6)give her time and space without her asking but always be a supporter 7)finding a virgin is hard in the society we developed so 99% you will end up with a girl experienced in relationships reading cosmopolitans going with sex flow of the time and having low emotional iq percieving people as comodities . when this happens proceed with caution. be your self and not appear rich but mainstream and again take it slow .when you get dupmed log in to talk.... i would like to keep mysleft searching for ufos though -john This is what my ex girlfriend was like for so long. Everything you mentioned was like her - except she lost interest in me while I was gone or maybe she wasn't as innocent as she was trying to make herself seem to me. I've found it - so close...I'm sure I will be able to find like her / better again who will enhance my life and not make it difficult.
hurts2death Posted September 19, 2013 Posted September 19, 2013 lauri only antichrist can fake all that,, that make her seem even worse... keep up we are getting there This is what my ex girlfriend was like for so long. Everything you mentioned was like her - except she lost interest in me while I was gone or maybe she wasn't as innocent as she was trying to make herself seem to me. I've found it - so close...I'm sure I will be able to find like her / better again who will enhance my life and not make it difficult.
Ireallydontknow Posted September 19, 2013 Posted September 19, 2013 I don't know about you guys but I like to make sure my girl will be a in minx in bed first. Who cares if she had a lot of sex prior? Everyone has sex! As long as it was consensual sex, while they weren't with a partner, I see no reason to care. 1
hurts2death Posted September 19, 2013 Posted September 19, 2013 a girl with ethics and morals cant have sex like that ... i am not over the edge on that,,, unless you want just a girlfriend that will end somedayI don't know about you guys but I like to make sure my girl will be a in minx in bed first. Who cares if she had a lot of sex prior? Everyone has sex! As long as it was consensual sex, while they weren't with a partner, I see no reason to care.
Ireallydontknow Posted September 19, 2013 Posted September 19, 2013 a girl with ethics and morals cant have sex like that ... i am not over the edge on that,,, unless you want just a girlfriend that will end someday I have ethics and morals and I don't fit the above list you just showed. 1
Author malin819 Posted September 19, 2013 Author Posted September 19, 2013 (edited) a girl with ethics and morals cant have sex like that ... i am not over the edge on that,,, unless you want just a girlfriend that will end someday I'm with you on this she had over 30 partners and is really easy!!! First time I meet her she wanted to bring me back! And guess what...the next day after our first break up she ****ed 1 guys. Second break up, she had sex with 2 guys during the 3 weeks break. I don't run my mouth but when I do I have facts You'll always have those thoughts behind your head...my longest relationship was 4-5 years and guess what she only had 3 partners and she was my first. I had my full trust in her since I knew she wasn't an easy girl. Edited September 19, 2013 by malin819 1
seekingpeaceinlove Posted September 19, 2013 Posted September 19, 2013 (edited) Ditto. Whatever floats his boat though. If you think Virgin = Never-ending relationships...best of luck to ya! I have ethics and morals and I don't fit the above list you just showed. Edited September 19, 2013 by seekingpeaceinlove
hurts2death Posted September 19, 2013 Posted September 19, 2013 ok so you start sth knowing it will end.....or have a wife for your kids and when your kids grow they foind out that the mam was banged by many.... wtf? are you serious? or have sth to go serious and after it is serious and have kids and family and all tell your kids that one day one of you might leave... or explain them gigs.... lol i will let my emotions to the next girls only if i am sure about her and she about me... if she is mature enough to see that people aint products.... ok if i go crazy she can let go but for gigs? lol
hurts2death Posted September 19, 2013 Posted September 19, 2013 i am sure you would not have that idea if you lived in the eastern civilizations where i do... i can see western civilizations are different.... there you just have sex, its a need you release the power somehow like when you hungry and eat...
seekingpeaceinlove Posted September 19, 2013 Posted September 19, 2013 Do you think most people on here with broken hearts went into their respective relationships knowing it would end the way it did? Do you think they weren't "sure" about each other before they decided to share their lives together? Don't think so. That's why getting into a relationship is taking a chance. You risk getting hurt. You cannot predict the future and nothing is a sure thing. You commit to someone based on what you've learned about them but people change, relationships change, life changes... Love is a gamble. ok so you start sth knowing it will end.....or have a wife for your kids and when your kids grow they foind out that the mam was banged by many.... wtf? are you serious? or have sth to go serious and after it is serious and have kids and family and all tell your kids that one day one of you might leave... or explain them gigs.... lol i will let my emotions to the next girls only if i am sure about her and she about me... if she is mature enough to see that people aint products.... ok if i go crazy she can let go but for gigs? lol
hurts2death Posted September 19, 2013 Posted September 19, 2013 i agree but i want to give an advice... not always but many times history gets repeated... if your ex dumped her ex suddently and cold watch out it might happen to you as much effort as you put it doesnt mater
seekingpeaceinlove Posted September 19, 2013 Posted September 19, 2013 That's true. The best indicator of future behavior is their history. I know I saw MANY red flags with my ex but I saw so many good things that I ignored the negatives and continued with the relationship. Here I am now..heartbroken. I won't say that I regret the relationship but I will say that I've learned exactly what to look for in the next one. i agree but i want to give an advice... not always but many times history gets repeated... if your ex dumped her ex suddently and cold watch out it might happen to you as much effort as you put it doesnt mater
Author malin819 Posted September 19, 2013 Author Posted September 19, 2013 That's true. The best indicator of future behavior is their history. I know I saw MANY red flags with my ex but I saw so many good things that I ignored the negatives and continued with the relationship. Here I am now..heartbroken. I won't say that I regret the relationship but I will say that I've learned exactly what to look for in the next one. welcome to my world When she told me she had sex with more then 30 guys...my mouth dropped but I said Hey she is a good girl...WRONG!!!
forgetmenot75 Posted September 19, 2013 Posted September 19, 2013 Better go test yourself. Please tell me you've had protection. 30 guys...what a who-re! (sorry) 1
Author malin819 Posted September 19, 2013 Author Posted September 19, 2013 I was tested and she was tested twice I was there when she did it I wont screw my health up
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