Babolat Posted September 19, 2013 Posted September 19, 2013 I have been on an OLD site for about 4 weeks now. Mostly just looking and observing. I have not contacted anyone. I have noticed my visitor count and message count is higher on Sundays and Mondays, than drops off during the week, then back up on Friday and over the weekend. My assessemtn of this is folks (women in my case) are busy during the week, work and such, the weekend rolls around, they start thinking, then on Sunday and Monday it's like "Ugh, another weekend "without somebody". or they did not meet someone over the weekend. Just a guess. Has anyone else seen this trend? Thoughts on my assessment? Thanks
Philosoraptor Posted September 19, 2013 Posted September 19, 2013 You seem to be very interested in the ins and outs of online dating. People are busy once the work week starts while they have more time to play on the weekends. Works this way for most people with jobs that have normal working hours. More people are probably out on dates, with friends, etc. on Saturday then relax more on Sunday. Send messages during half time of the game or something. I dunno, why not just message someone back and ask them why they waited until Sunday/Monday to send you a message? 1
Author Babolat Posted September 19, 2013 Author Posted September 19, 2013 (edited) You seem to be very interested in the ins and outs of online dating. People are busy once the work week starts while they have more time to play on the weekends. Works this way for most people with jobs that have normal working hours. More people are probably out on dates, with friends, etc. on Saturday then relax more on Sunday. Send messages during half time of the game or something. I dunno, why not just message someone back and ask them why they waited until Sunday/Monday to send you a message? Curious, I am an analytical curious person..and I did OLD 2 years ago, so I guess I am "catching up" with where it is now. My view of it is differnt from then, 2 years ago, I have a different filter, a better one I think, this time. So much so I have yet to see anyone I would message. And no, I will not be messaging anyone asking them why they messaged me on a certain day/time...again, just curious. I am busy during the work week, and usually busier on the weekends. Sunday night is usually my "Ahhhhh....chill" time. So, should I decide to continue, that's when I will log in and check for activity! I am also on the bubble on wether I should reply to the messages I am receivng from woman I am not attracted to. I am digging spending time with woman as friends, so who knows, it could lead to a good friendship. One in particular share a lot of my hobbies, though physically I was not attracted to her photos. Could lead to a great friendship though. Edited September 19, 2013 by Babolat
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