Should I tell this girl I like her?

[NIN]

Okay, so there's this girl I've been friends with since highschool that I haven't seen in a few years, and I've always had a thing for her, but never did anything about it because I had a girlfriend at the time. Well, I ended up hanging out with her a couple times at a mutual friends house over the last couple months, and last time we exchanged numbers. She called me the other day to hang out, but I was busy, so I told her I would call her later this week. Well here's the thing, I still really like this girl, but she has a boyfriend now. So is it worth telling her how I feel? Or would that just end up ruining our friendship? I wonder if her wanting to hang out means she might be interested in me, or if she just likes being friends with me. I'm worried that it might not do any good to tell her how I feel, but I do have feelings for her and would hate to miss the opportunity to tell her. Any suggestions on what to do? Thanks.

 

- Brian

[missopinionated]

Hang out with her in a group.

 

People in good relationships don't 'hang out' with people who obvously like them, unless she's looking for a way out. That would make you the rebound guy and would leave you exactly where you are now -- without her, except for with a broken heart.

[rowi1116]

hang out with her as friends, in groups, but get some time during the group activities to chat with her....catch up on things more....see where her relationship is at. dont tell her anything. good things are worth the wait. :-) in the mean time, enjoy her friendship, date other people....don't endlessly hold candles for her either.....she or someone else will soon realize how worth it you are

[alphamale]

Dear Nine Inch Nails:

 

NO - do not tell her you like her that way

YES - she just wants to be friends with you otherwise you'd be her boyfriend.

 

Always remember NIN, usually it is the woman who chooses who will be her man, not the other way around.