buzzie2 Posted September 19, 2013 Posted September 19, 2013 When you first start dating a guy- how do you know; or what are some signs that he cares about you beyond just being sexually attracted to you?
Syconort Posted September 19, 2013 Posted September 19, 2013 He will ask questions about you and take a genuine interest. You can feign interest but only for so long, which means noticing a kind of consistent interest and attentiveness is key. He will talk less about himself and want to instead listen to you. If I genuinely care about somebody, I'm very understanding and accepting of them and eager to know how and why they tick. I want them to open up, and when they do I acknowledge and appreciate that. If somebody is only sexually attracted to you, expect lots of sexual innuendos and excessive flirting. 2
nessaaa Posted September 19, 2013 Posted September 19, 2013 A man never genuinely cares about a female... 1
Syconort Posted September 19, 2013 Posted September 19, 2013 A man never genuinely cares about a female... What a sad little existence you must live if you honestly believe that! If anything, almost all men genuinely care about their mothers, don't they?
nessaaa Posted September 19, 2013 Posted September 19, 2013 What a sad little existence you must live if you honestly believe that! If anything, almost all men genuinely care about their mothers, don't they? And your stupid and nieve if you don't believe that. Men don't genuinely care about females, they fake to get something out of it. Only females know about to love and care with their heart. The only female a man cares about 100% is their daughters sometimes not even. 1
Syconort Posted September 19, 2013 Posted September 19, 2013 Get real! Truth is YOU don't genuinely care about females and you're trying to project that on every other man. I already know it's complete BS because I am a man and I do care about many females in my life where I stand to gain absolutely nothing from that. Stop talking out of your ass.
nessaaa Posted September 19, 2013 Posted September 19, 2013 Clearly you don't know yourself...next time your in a relationship, take a step back an observe yourself. Women are selfless ...men are not. 1
Syconort Posted September 19, 2013 Posted September 19, 2013 Don't know myself? You're not talking to a retarded monkey, matey. I know myself very well, thank you very much, and you clearly have no idea what you're talking about. You're either a troll or the resident moron. Either way, you're not worth another breath. Troll on, brother/sister.
nessaaa Posted September 19, 2013 Posted September 19, 2013 Why are you getting so upset and worked up. Its a forum biatch, where you can express your opinion. Bye.
Syconort Posted September 19, 2013 Posted September 19, 2013 I don't take nicely to idiots, online or offline. Bye
crederer Posted September 19, 2013 Posted September 19, 2013 So, in summation, if you're dating the above poster, then there is nothing other than physical attraction. 1
jcrew11 Posted September 19, 2013 Posted September 19, 2013 When you first start dating a guy- how do you know; or what are some signs that he cares about you beyond just being sexually attracted to you? LOL, how old are you? Do you have a high IQ? Are you more interested in TMZ than MSNBC? Start talking about the Kardashian Show and see if your boyfriend can stay awake. You can also try asking him to help you out with stuff or run errands for you to see how far he will go for sex.
phineas Posted September 19, 2013 Posted September 19, 2013 So, in summation, if you're dating the above poster, then there is nothing other than physical attraction. I see what you did there.
Skyraider829 Posted September 20, 2013 Posted September 20, 2013 When you first start dating a guy- how do you know; or what are some signs that he cares about you beyond just being sexually attracted to you? Every man will have a different characteristic I'm sure, but with me - I end up actually sort of forgetting about the physical attraction and end up getting lost in delightful conversation with her. Instead of just being blown away by her physical stature, I end up craving more of intellectual traits she posses, wanting to learn more about her and her life and her interests. Frankly, both the physical and intellectual attraction together make for one exciting experience.
soccerrprp Posted September 20, 2013 Posted September 20, 2013 (edited) A man never genuinely cares about a female... Bull poptarts!!! This is just not true! I was married to a woman for 12+ years, as her friend, lover, caretaker, etc. I am now with a woman where I am prepared and committed to do the same for however long life gives us. What rubbish that statement is... and I speak for many men. Edited September 20, 2013 by soccerrprp 3
Woggle Posted September 20, 2013 Posted September 20, 2013 Bull poptarts!!! This is just not true! I was married to a woman for 12+ years, as her friend, lover, caretaker, etc. I am now with a woman where I am prepared and committed to do the same for however long life gives us. What rubbish that statement is... and I speak for many men. Don't bother. They will believe what they want to believe.
hppr Posted September 20, 2013 Posted September 20, 2013 When you first start dating a guy- how do you know; or what are some signs that he cares about you beyond just being sexually attracted to you? It's like anything else it just takes time getting to know someone before you can figure out their motivations. You have to be willing to take the time and effort to get to know them and to take a few risks in order to jumpstart things. Self awareness helps too. Some people are just not conscious of their place in their world and of their own good/bad qualities so their dating lives are all over the map.
hppr Posted September 20, 2013 Posted September 20, 2013 A man never genuinely cares about a female... That's only true if you date selfish men exclusively. There are plenty of men out there who are selfless and giving, problem is that you are probably not attracted to them because of that. Like I said it's all about self-awareness...
Phantom888 Posted September 20, 2013 Posted September 20, 2013 When he enjoys doing stuff with you that doesn't involve sex. When he is happy just being with you, and snuggling with you without trying to undress you. When he suggests activities that both of you enjoy and can laugh together.
365daysgone Posted September 20, 2013 Posted September 20, 2013 Clearly you don't know yourself...next time your in a relationship, take a step back an observe yourself. Women are selfless ...men are not. Troll is trolling.
ebor Posted September 20, 2013 Posted September 20, 2013 When anybody genuinely care, the number one sign is fear of rejection, I am amazed that people don't notice this. side effects include insecurities become clear, inferiority complex. Don't want to manipulate, compromise, honest It's clear the above things are unattractive, that's why guys IQ lower around attractive women.
Mr.Mango Posted September 20, 2013 Posted September 20, 2013 In it's simplest form: when a man wants to be your friend aside from everything else. It's astonishing how people forget that the word friend is in boyfriend. Feel like we should have a new word for partners focused on the physical aspects of a relationship.
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