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For everyone going through a break up right now


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Just a few moments ago I feel like a light bulb came on in my head and I wanted to share my thoughts....

 

After 2 days off moping around the house feeling sorry for myself after being broken up with on Monday..... I feel like I need to sort myself out!

 

I looked in the mirror and saw something horrible and thought no wonder I've been dumped!!!!

 

So from now on I am going to be positive, look after myself and be happy that I now have more time for my friends and family, and more time to do whatever I want to do without having to worry about him.

 

I do want to prove to him that I am ok and that I don't need him to make me happy. But more than anything I want to do it for myself.

 

I'm not saying its going to be easy and I'm at the beginning of my journey to becoming myself again, but dwelling on the past is not going to help.

 

So to everyone who is going through a break up too, I hope you can join me in getting out of this horrible horrible phase that will pass once we are positive and look towards the future :) There's a whole world of people out there to meet....

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i know one that is the more special to meet though.....

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------our self--------

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Nice to see a positive thread about how you are feeling. Of course you won't be happy all the time with what happened but it is for the best. If they don't want you, screw them! Focus on yourself and you will be happy - its guaranteed to benefit you long term and when you meet that next person, you will feel great, look great and attract that next special someone.

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I do want to prove to him that I am ok and that I don't need him to make me happy. But more than anything I want to do it for myself.

 

I agreed up till that point. You no longer need to prove anything to this person! Screw that guy, not literally. :p

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