myfairyking Posted September 18, 2013 Posted September 18, 2013 Every time I talk to my boyfriend, I can't help but feel frustration and anger. All I can think about are the insensitive, selfish and immature things he's done that have hurt me in the past. If I bring them up, we end up fighting. I don't know how to move on from these things. He says that he's changed and to a certain degree I believe him, but it doesn't stop the fact that I still feel hurt. What should I do?!
Philosoraptor Posted September 18, 2013 Posted September 18, 2013 So you're a closeted bisexual and he's a homophobe who you cant trust, is addicted to porn, and he has hurt you a ton. Again, why are you still with him?
eccentriclady Posted November 3, 2013 Posted November 3, 2013 Breaking it off for a while if it works for you for however long 'til you feel regrouped or less conflicted. See how you feel and react then. Maybe consider how you really feel about him deep down or if you even think you want to be with him. If you are still simmering about unfair things he's done maybe you question is love and/or respect for you ?
bumpyroad Posted November 3, 2013 Posted November 3, 2013 Every time I talk to my boyfriend, I can't help but feel frustration and anger. All I can think about are the insensitive, selfish and immature things he's done that have hurt me in the past. If I bring them up, we end up fighting. I don't know how to move on from these things. He says that he's changed and to a certain degree I believe him, but it doesn't stop the fact that I still feel hurt. What should I do?! Maybe you can't move on from it. Some things that are said and done cross a line and can't be taken back. Has it become toxic? If so, then you're done.
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