Kam1190 Posted September 18, 2013 Posted September 18, 2013 Me and my ex broke up after a dumb argument, we always had stupid arguments throughout the 4 years like any other relationship. I never was physical with her, never cheated, and never called her names. We always talked about how we could never be with anyone else, and even 2 weeks before we broke up she told me " she can't wait until we can wake up to each other in the mornings". In the past 12 days since we broke up, she hasn't texted me back once. I wrote her an 11 page letter, and I haven't seen or talked to her in 6 days. We had never gone any longer then a day without talking before. What are the chances she will text me or try to contact me over time? And how long? There is no one else involved by the way. It's like she just completely blocked me out of her life.
Ireallydontknow Posted September 18, 2013 Posted September 18, 2013 After sending an 11 page letter you probably lost all chances.
ashleyn09 Posted September 18, 2013 Posted September 18, 2013 I don't think you have lost all chances but keep away now and work on yourself. Keep busy. No Contact with her until she contacts you and usually they will for some reason. You never know, after you heal you may feel better being alone a while too. I know it doesn't seem like that now.
lovelylilly Posted September 18, 2013 Posted September 18, 2013 No contact sucks, but it really is the best way. By trying to contact her after she hasn't responded probably makes her angry and will just push her away. Focus on keeping your mind off her (it's what helps me anyway) and give it a couple of weeks before you try to contact her again. It's hard, trust me I know, but I really feel no contact of ANY sort is the best for your situation. Maybe after 2-3 weeks send her a message via text or on facebook and ask her how she's doing and take it from there. Just be prepared in case she keeps ignoring you because if she does it's going to hurt bad .
KeepItBoosted Posted September 18, 2013 Posted September 18, 2013 I don't know man, it sounds like someone else. I would just go NC and focus on you. I would have never thought my ex (of 5 years) had someone else when she said we needed a break, she reassured me that the break was for her to find herself and that it would strengthen our relationship. You know what she did a week into our break...go get pounded by some dude, then another dude. Didn't find out until about 2 months of us "reconnecting" and "strengthening" our relationship. So tread lightly if you even have to tread, I suggest making tire tracks.
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