hurts2death Posted September 18, 2013 Posted September 18, 2013 (edited) i was thinking about what happens after the break up... here we are mostly dumpees i guess. i thought of this the dumpee after the break up needs signals from the dumper where is he how he does etc... some slight contact and i came to this... DO NOT INTERFER WITH HIM her AT ALL go nc and general do not put effort in anything he she does so you learn what is going on with their lifes.. just vanish and let them have their intact destiny... stay out of their social circle just vanish from the universe for them.. they chose their destiny let them deal with it...it is real important not only for us to heal but for the general road of their lives to do not appear in their picture at all... let them walk the road they made... the more you keep your self in scene the more you interfer their destiny and get yourself stuck moving on...... nc is a saint i believe. we must stay absolute nc no matter what... things come around eventually...dont hold on that but it happens.. -john Edited September 18, 2013 by hurts2death
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