Untitled Posted November 22, 2004 Posted November 22, 2004 I am un-sure if this iscause for any concern but ill ask anyway. I have a g/f of nearly two years and while i would never cheat on her, i often have thought of sleeping with other girls i know and find very attractive. Am i reading too much into this or is there somehting underlying here?
savethedrama4allama Posted November 22, 2004 Posted November 22, 2004 This is probably normal for a lot of people, but not for me and some others I know. Have you had other girlfriends before? Did this happen with them? When did these thoughts begin with your current girlfriend? Personally, if I start thinking that way its a major sign that I have lost interest in the relationship.
Author Untitled Posted November 22, 2004 Author Posted November 22, 2004 Originally posted by savethedrama4yrmama Personally, if I start thinking that way its a major sign that I have lost interest in the relationship. Thats what would have thoguht but when she and i are togehter its the last thing on my mind and even if i tried i couldnt imagine myself being with anyone else.
alphamale Posted November 22, 2004 Posted November 22, 2004 Untitled: You are totally normal, don't worry about or try to fix a thing. this happens cause you have something in yer body called TESTOSTERONE actually sir....I would be mORE worried if you were lookin at attractive women and DID NOT want to sleep with them.
tattoomytoe Posted November 22, 2004 Posted November 22, 2004 DO NOT TELL HER(the gf) THESE THOUGHTS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! for obvious reasons.
Author Untitled Posted November 22, 2004 Author Posted November 22, 2004 Originally posted by tattoomytoe DO NOT TELL HER(the gf) THESE THOUGHTS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! for obvious reasons. I figured that much out myself but thanks for the heads up anyway. Thanks Alphamale.
Author Untitled Posted November 27, 2004 Author Posted November 27, 2004 Just to clarify though...this doesnt mean im losing interest in my g/f?
UCFKevin Posted November 27, 2004 Posted November 27, 2004 Maybe. Maybe not. No one can say for sure. But it IS normal.
Author Untitled Posted November 27, 2004 Author Posted November 27, 2004 So your saying that wether or not i am losing interest in my g/f, this would be happening anyway?
Patiently waiting Posted November 27, 2004 Posted November 27, 2004 I think it's called "fantasizing" eh?
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